As some may know my bmum has cut me out of her life.She doesn't want me to contact members of her family but my uncle said he would still talk to me.The problem is,even after bmum being really mean to her my Aunt(Uncles wife)is siding with bmum.I really cannot understand this at all.Neither can uncle.I don't feel i can contact him as i don't want to put a wedge between him and his wife.Should I write to her to thank her for welcoming us originally and explain to her that it has not been me being on a social whirlwind or being pushy as bmum has made out.I don't think she understands the hurt and emotions and subsequent rejection i have been through.I think she just thinks i was having a loverly social time meeting my relatives.Hope this is clear as to what i am trying to say.I was up for hours last night thinking about it.It was mentionned to me that this may be a good idea.I am really not sure.Please offer any advice and perhaps why I should or shouldn't write to her.Thanks
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