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Adoption is the legal act of permanently placing a child with a parent or parents other than the birth parents. Whether you are looking to adopt, putting your child up for adoption, parenting an adopted child, or just thinking about it, this is the place to discuss.
Well...I'm at a young age right now but I've been thinking to myself and been wanting a baby...I'm not sure why. And I know I'm not ready for a an actual baby. But inside I want one, maybe just something to care for...Not sure what to do...Any advice?
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Looked at your profile and yes you are young. Do you not have any pets? A baby is a 24/7 responsibility which means there will be so much in life you will miss out on to make sure the baby is taken care of properly.
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I'm not sure why you are asking this in an adoption forum...
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try one of the teen forums...I'm sure that you are not the only one feeling this way...
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A baby is not going to fill the emptiness. Are you bored? A baby is a lot of work. You'll be tired and stressed out and do you have the money for pampers and formula. Can you buy clothes and a crib? Do you even have a job?
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I think you REALLY need to wait! I can't even imagine what it would be like to have a baby at 15. You have your whole life a head of you. Children are wonderful, but think of the child. At 15 there is no way you could give a baby everything it needs. Hope this helps. Good luck and if you need to talk msg me. I will try to help as much as possible.
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If you would like to become pregnant, I would be happy to adopt your baby!
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We would all like to be mothers. But this is a child. Read his profil. I don't think anyone should encourage it. Such a hard decision for such a young person. I do however, understand what you are saying. These are not fighting words..lol. Hope your journey is succesful!
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Anne.... that is possibly the sickest thing I have ever heard. Your telling a 15 year old to get pregnant so YOU can have a child. Selfish and irresponsible! Please rethink adoption.
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Whoa - slow down!! I posted this because obviously this person is fishing for a response like the one I gave - I mean why would you go to an adoption board to ask about getting pregnant. This is not real! If this person is real, they know that getting pregnant is foolish at "her" age! Let's not take this too seriously!
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Anne Seriously.. you think it's funny?
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IF you notice this is a boy! He can't get pregnant!
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Just forget I ever said anything - I found this post comical and do not think that it is real - so anyway forget I ever said anything - sorry if I offended you, I must keep a lighthearted outlook during my journey to my babies or I will loose my mind! Again - sorry - I did not mean for my comment to be taken the way it was. Sorry, Sorry, Sorry! And KayEaiAn if you are a realy person whether you be a boy or a girl, please don't get pregnant at 14 - it is dumb to do that just because you are lonely or whatever.
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