I am a mother of two beautiful babes. I was adopted @ 6months old, brought here to the usa. I love my kids, and would like to have more. My husbands family doesnt' have anyone onhis mothers side who doesnt have schizophrenia. along with some other mental disorder. Hes not my kids dad by the way. Both of his sisters have been diagnosed in the last year, and they have kids of their own. I don't want to take the chance of passing something on. I do not agree with adoption, everycase is different, but I dont want kids if they arent mine. My hub is 24 and wants kids, though will settle for mine if I choose not to. Is it fair to him? I realize the decision is ours in the end, but similar situations that youmay feel commenting or opening up about please do.
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