I was adopted when I was 3 and I am now 26 and last year found my Biological Mother. I have seen her once since then but asked her a very big question. I asked why they took us away.(.already knowing the answer for the most part) I just wanted to hear it from her. Her response was that the neighbors were jealous. I dont think if she is going to lie about it that I want to keep in contact and I have told her that until she is honest with me and herself that I wont contact her. She no longer has my phone number because i moved and changed it to a local number. she still has contact with my siblings and tries to contact me through my sister. She told me my Dad had passed away when we met and later she told my sister that he was still alive. I still didn't call or write due to the fact that it may be a way to get to me (with another lie). I think about it sometimes and feel guilty that I took myself out of the picture again but my siblings still talk to her and dont seem to care that she lied to us. But I love my Adoptive parents who will always be Mom and Dad but is it wrong of me to push bio lady right back out of my life?
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