Adoption Support Group
Adoption is the legal act of permanently placing a child with a parent or parents other than the birth parents. Whether you are looking to adopt, putting your child up for adoption, parenting an adopted child, or just thinking about it, this is the place to discuss.
Over the next few weeks it will be 3 of my beautiful childrens birthdays and not 1 of them will be spent with me, instead i will imagine them opening their pressies, the birthday parties and the love, laughter and cuddles. Today i even looked through shopping web sites and chose what i'd buy them but i didn't buy them they lie on the shop shelf i'll get a letter next september telling me how the party went. I really can't do this i feel like i'm stuck in the middle, on one side i have a lovely husband and 2 wonderful boys then on the other side i have 6 brave and amazing children who are not with me, i know this sounds selfish but i miss my babies, i'm there mom and i want my babies.
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I am adopted, and I bet on their birthdays they wil be thinking of you too and wishing they could have a hug from you. I know it doesn't help you see them, but I am sure you are not far away in their thoughts! I am sorry I cna't be more helpful...email me if you want to chat! xxxxx
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Hi sweetie, you brought tears to my eyes. I know how it feels to trawl through catalogues dreaming of what you would pick out for your baby. I do it all the time, and it hurts but for some reasons gives me a little bit of joy, to be able to imagine the beautiful things my son will have, that i can't afford. I hope on your childrens special day, his adoptive parents give them extra hugs and kisses from you, the mummy, the angel, who made such a huge sacrifice for her children. You're a stronger mummy than many many out there. I know, the pain will never go away, and we will always have our ups and our downs...and our really downs...but know that you did what was right at the time, know that your children have an amazing life, know that they are probably thinking of you too, and know, that you gave a couple, the most amazing gift that they will ever recieve...and words can't describe how much they appreciate you. God bless beautiful xx
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