My husband and I adopted two amazing boys. They've been with us for just under a year. Their social worker really pushes a relationship with their former foster mother, but minimizes the need for a relationship with their birthmother. I want to contact their birthmother and the social worker doesn't think I should, but finally let it slip that their birthmother wanted an open adoption. WE DIDN'T KNOW! Their birthmother did not make an adoption plan, the boys were almost 2 and 3 1/2 when her rights were terminated. I want to contact her but don't know what to say or how to say it.
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