Adoption Support Group
Adoption is the legal act of permanently placing a child with a parent or parents other than the birth parents. Whether you are looking to adopt, putting your child up for adoption, parenting an adopted child, or just thinking about it, this is the place to discuss.
Today was the most heart breaking day of my
life. I had to tell the Social Workers here
and his Guardian in B.C, that I'm not able to proceed with the adoption. My son has made choices that can not be erased,and now I have
to let him go. If I don't then child welfare
can come and remove my granddaughter from
the home. Now I have to think what in the best
interest for all not just for one. My heart is
full of pain for all of us because of his
behaviors, then to top it all off, he has to
go back to B.C. because he is the ward of the
courts there.
We were in the final stages of the adoption
and it would have gone through if my son
didn't make the choices that he did. This
past year I gaved and helped him to reach his goals for his life but that wasn't enough. Because of peer pressure and their influence, he's got himself into alcohol, plus his pschologist and myself believe good
possibility dealing with street drugs also.
Since this summer, I being dealing with a very exposive teenager that knows what he is doing, but not wanting to take responsiblity for his action at the time.
Now he has gone to far, I have granddaughter
in the home,she saw him coming attacking me
and damaging the home. I truly hate alcohol
and drugs, first effects the parents then the
children, then teenagers think it's cool,
then they pressure other teens into trying it.
I truly love him, he had a lot going for him
self and now after making these choices, it
will effect him for life.
My son will always be my son, no matter if he's
adopted or not. I needing my friends from DS to help me get through this, Please help, Please hear my hearts cry, yes, I may be a strong
person but every one needs someone in their life
to help them through the hard times. It feels as if I lost a child again. Please say a pray for me.Frances
life. I had to tell the Social Workers here
and his Guardian in B.C, that I'm not able to proceed with the adoption. My son has made choices that can not be erased,and now I have
to let him go. If I don't then child welfare
can come and remove my granddaughter from
the home. Now I have to think what in the best
interest for all not just for one. My heart is
full of pain for all of us because of his
behaviors, then to top it all off, he has to
go back to B.C. because he is the ward of the
courts there.
We were in the final stages of the adoption
and it would have gone through if my son
didn't make the choices that he did. This
past year I gaved and helped him to reach his goals for his life but that wasn't enough. Because of peer pressure and their influence, he's got himself into alcohol, plus his pschologist and myself believe good
possibility dealing with street drugs also.
Since this summer, I being dealing with a very exposive teenager that knows what he is doing, but not wanting to take responsiblity for his action at the time.
Now he has gone to far, I have granddaughter
in the home,she saw him coming attacking me
and damaging the home. I truly hate alcohol
and drugs, first effects the parents then the
children, then teenagers think it's cool,
then they pressure other teens into trying it.
I truly love him, he had a lot going for him
self and now after making these choices, it
will effect him for life.
My son will always be my son, no matter if he's
adopted or not. I needing my friends from DS to help me get through this, Please help, Please hear my hearts cry, yes, I may be a strong
person but every one needs someone in their life
to help them through the hard times. It feels as if I lost a child again. Please say a pray for me.Frances
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
God bless
Blessings,
Jan