I was married to my first wife for 8 years, when we started dating she expressed she wanted children as i did, my dream was to have a child after we were married say after a year or so. As time went on she said we should waite untill we had more money saved and a nice home, after about 3 years she just kept having excuses, finally she admitted to me that she was too selfish to have children. The marriage went down hill from there... I have now been married to my second wife for 7 years who already had 2 girls now 17 and 18. she cant have children because of a polysistic overy disease.... She doesent seem to understand how much, and why i would like to have a child of my own, i helped raise the 2 girls, and i sincerely love them. Adoption is very expensive,and a very difficult process that im told could take years... My wife now seems open to adoption, or even serogacy.But I dont know what the first step would be. Any Advice would be very much appreciated!!
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