THERE ARE MORE THAN JUST PARENTS AND A CHILD INVOLED IN ADOPTIONS, THERE ARE THOSE OF US WHO GET LEFT BEHIND TO TO SPEAK.I COME FROM A LARGE FAMILY,ALMOST ALL OF MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS ARE HALF,EXCEPT ONE,THOUGH THAT MATTERS NOT TO ME. MY TWO OLDER SIBLINGS ON MY MOMS SIDE , ONE BROTHER HAD ALREADY BEEN ILLALY ADOPTED OUT OF THE COUNTREY BY THE TIME IWAS BORN AND MY MOTHER COULD GO LOOK FOR HIM, THOUGH WE FOUND MY OLDER SISTER, I HAVE SOME MEMORRY OF HER,AND HAVE SPOKE TO HER AS AN ADULT I DONT KNOW HER,HOWEVER MY YOUNGER SISTER WHO I\'M ONLY 9 MONTHS OLDER THAN, WERE SEPERATED AT VERY YOUNG AGE NEVER TO SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN, WE WERE VERY CLOSE, LIKE TWIN CLOSE, WHEN I FOUND OUT AT ABOUT 11 OR 12 THAT SHE HAD BEEN ADOPTED I WAS HEART BROKEN, I\'VE SEARCHED MY WHOLE ADULT LIFE. THINKING THOUGH THAT SHE HAD ESCAPED THE ABUSE AND ALL THAT WENT WITH IT. SO AS JOYOUS AS IT IS TO FIND HER AND TO FIND OUT HOW MUCH ALIKE WE ARE, MY HEART WAS BROKE SHE HAD ESCAPED NOTHING. HOWEVER WERE ADAULTS NOW AND HAVE FOUND EACH OTHER AFTER ALL THESE YEARS, I\'M STILL IN SHOCK.I KEEP WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO PINCH ME AND TELL ME IT WAS A DREAM. DREAMS DO COME TRUE.
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