If you need to know, start a search. I'm not sure if you asking how to start a search or whether or not you should do it. My birthmother told me in a letter after our first telephone conversation that for the first time in years, she was at peace regarding giving me up for adoption.

I would recommend that you really pray about what you should do. You might be rejected. But, he might be looking for you, too.

I wanted to have contact with my birthfather; he wanted nothing to do with me, and he passed away a couple of years after I showed up in my birthmothers life. It hurt, but it was his loss.

My prayers are with you that you have peace about the way you are supposed to go regarding your son. Keep me posted.

Blessings,
Jan

If it was a state adoption, you can leave a message there saying ok for contact and all your contact details. As that should be the first place he will go looking and if that is not there, but under privacy cover, he cant get them. With your ok to contact or what ever you wish left, he can be given. If you only want a message passed on to you letting you know he is ok, that can be set up, or full contact if he wants it. If you know his adopted name, you just may find he has already done that for you. Or may have said no contact, just have to prepare for either if he has.