I have to vent. I have this friend from hell...You all must know what I mean. The one that is mean to you but turns around and always asking you for something when needy...Well I thought I was free from her but she caught up to me...I do love her and know she has had a tough life but have tried to help her in past and she just keeps shitting on me. Well she called me around the time of deaths in family so I kinda blew her off cause couldnt deal with her at this time. so she is relentless and calls me when I am feeling better and tells me she has no one else to go to and her husband took her kids but she has been in rehab and she is better but has burned all her bridges and has no one else but me. Which is probably true. So I told her I would help her. I insisted though that she couldnt move in with me and would only financially help with basic needs...She was at my mercy. I couldnt believe it. she was saying yes maam..She said she can finally understand why she has had people not like her. I felt so sorry for her. She said she hated herself. I told her I would not give up on her or allow her to give up on herself...I couldnt abandon her..This is what true humanity is all about...Makes me realize how we as humans should always be towards fellow humans...Unconditional. Is sometimes stressful and wears on us but we must always reach out. Could really be saving a life...Regardless how this turns out. Is the thought and effort that counts. I just hope and pray can make a difference so she can regain her dignity and esteem and children.. thanks, Betsy
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