i am hearing these stories about contact with b-mom and is not going so well. I say this. Please dont let this person define you. You must define yourself. You are a person who has pretty much raised yourself. Take finding her as gratitude because at least you dont have to spend the rest of your life wondering anymore. Realize tht this is a growing point in your life and be like wow. I turned out pretty good despite. Also realize you have a fresh start and this is very important. I dont have this. I had to create my own fresh start. The times in my life when this was just so strong made my life a living nightmare. The time I took from my children and my family was really a waste. It wasnt fair to them. My thought now is. This is her loss. she had a wonderful opportunity. I was born to her. Is her job as a parent to search me out. Not the other way around. Dont lose years of misery for something you did not cause to happen. Live your life forward as God's intentions. Love, Betsy
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