I know this si not about adoption but I was hoping maybe to get feedbck. My husband and I have been togrther 20 years and we are growing so apart. I keep saying if he doesnt change then when kids are off then must go my own way. I am serious...He takes lightly but I am dead serious. I dont want another relationship I just want to stop telling myself he is going to change when I know differently. I hang on for the kids..I will sacrifice for them till the time comes. I must. they are my babies..We dont argue and fight alot is just lack of affection and attention...Breaks my heart but I refuse to stay when makes me unhappy when the kids are gone..No spark. and not from lack of effort. i constantly am trying but turns sour...I am so beside myself.. Just sad about this.. I take my energies and put them into my kids and my job and all of you., Makes me happy. Love, Betsy
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