Do I hear some frustration in your note? Well no wonder!!! I was frustrated too..seemed that everyone was telling me that I didn't know what I was talking about...I mean really, I'm only a their Mom!! UGGG!!! I've learned that I need to follow my gut feelings, and if I am not heard...I keep at it! I, as well as I am sure you, just want the best for our kiddies, what is so hard to understand about that?
I put all my thoughts into point form..made sure I had all the info that I could gather together ready and then had a meeting. I didn't worry if there was something I didn't know..I was learning too! So I guess I would say..ask your questions..get your school involved..ask other family memebers to write what they see too...
I didn't want a diagnosis so much as i wanted to learn how to help my sons!! Good luck with your meeting tomorrow...you will do just fine! :o)

I agree with cynb. I keep a journal of the things I notice in my son. When its time for the dr. appointment I always take it with me and make sure to make a copy for their records. This has really helped the dr. out because they only see our children for a short time, we are with them all the time.

Same here, I have got a daily journal so I can write down his behaviour every day, and another journal which I take with me for any appointments.I use the daily journal to keep track of any new behaviour and try to notice a pattern, which I over look before I go to appointments and point them down on my other journal to take with me.Also taking a journal or note book to appointments is very good for taking note because sometimes it can be very overwhelming with all the information discussed.