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Attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and attention deficit disorder (ADD) are more common than you might think. It is a syndrome that exhibits symptoms such as hyperactivity, forgetfulness, mood shifts, poor impulse control, and distractibility. Join others who suffer from these conditions and share your experiences.

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My home is so badly out of order that it causes problems in my marriage.
I myself am affected by the negativity it produces. In-laws don't speak well of a messy unorganized home and for some reason these opinions always manage to get to my ears one way or another. I only notice the mess because my husband comments on it. I feel so busy. I know I am not lazy! I am exhauseted by 8PM! I am starting to feel like a total looser! No matter how hard I try....there is no time for everything! I feel incompetent. (and my husband does not hesitate to remind me of it when he is upset) help!
I myself am affected by the negativity it produces. In-laws don't speak well of a messy unorganized home and for some reason these opinions always manage to get to my ears one way or another. I only notice the mess because my husband comments on it. I feel so busy. I know I am not lazy! I am exhauseted by 8PM! I am starting to feel like a total looser! No matter how hard I try....there is no time for everything! I feel incompetent. (and my husband does not hesitate to remind me of it when he is upset) help!
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The little ones we shelter here, dont thrive on spotless atmosphere.
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Their needs are great, their patience small.
All day I'm at their beck and call.
It's Mommy come! It's Mommy see! Wiggly worms and redscraped knees.
Painted picture blocks piled high. My floor unshined the day goes by.
Some future day they'll flee the nest. And I at last will have a rest.
AND WHICH REALLY MATTERS MORE? A HAPPY CHILD OR A POLISHED FLOOR.
I *DO* tidy up the place quite well when expecting guests, and I've found it helps to invite people over more often, so I HAVE TO clean up. This doesn't help with the heap of laundry and mess I can hide in my bedroom with the door closed, but it's a start!
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