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I did a bad thing.
I violated my husband's trust.
I signed into his email to check up on who he's chatting with. And he caught me at it. I really hurt his feelings and did some damage to his trust in me. I don't know why I did that. I used to check his email a lot but haven't done it in over a year. It used to be like a compulsion to find out what he's been up to, even though I have never found anything bad and he has never given me reason to mistrust him. My ex-husband, YES, but my David is a wonderfully supportive, loving caring man who has never let me down not once.
I have apologized profusely and really feel bad for doing that, but I'm glad he caught me at it. I always felt guilty for doing it and knew it wasn't right. I feel horrible that I disappointed him like that. My ex husband used to accuse me of cheating on him and it used to upset me terribly, and here I am displaying the same mistrust for this man who loves me so steadfastly.
I guess it will take some time to get past it.
Can anybody relate to this?? Compulsively seeking something that might be happening secretly behind your back? Like you're looking for dirt on someone? Like you need to find something bad?
Sheepishly,
Melanie
I violated my husband's trust.
I signed into his email to check up on who he's chatting with. And he caught me at it. I really hurt his feelings and did some damage to his trust in me. I don't know why I did that. I used to check his email a lot but haven't done it in over a year. It used to be like a compulsion to find out what he's been up to, even though I have never found anything bad and he has never given me reason to mistrust him. My ex-husband, YES, but my David is a wonderfully supportive, loving caring man who has never let me down not once.
I have apologized profusely and really feel bad for doing that, but I'm glad he caught me at it. I always felt guilty for doing it and knew it wasn't right. I feel horrible that I disappointed him like that. My ex husband used to accuse me of cheating on him and it used to upset me terribly, and here I am displaying the same mistrust for this man who loves me so steadfastly.
I guess it will take some time to get past it.
Can anybody relate to this?? Compulsively seeking something that might be happening secretly behind your back? Like you're looking for dirt on someone? Like you need to find something bad?
Sheepishly,
Melanie
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
My advice to you is to put the incident behind you and learn from your mistake.
One thing I always remember when I am feeling insecure is that my husband chose to marry me and is with me. That's good enough for me.