AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!! Why in the world would you want your first time to be like that?????????????????????????????

Well more then likely i will advoid but its hard to do because i'm like horny all of the time.i do masturbate like four times a day also

i would definately wait. you've stayed a virgin this long for a reason, not to give it up to a married woman. also that may be setting yourself up and create unnessecary feelings in you--considering she is married. and if you are a christian, isn't that a sin? i know it is on her part, but you are enabling her to do that. think with your head on your shoulders, not the other one!

are you serious, how can you say your wanting to be abstinent, but be so readily willing to loose it for some girl who gives it to any tom dick or harry.

What else can i say i'm 23?all apologizes

what does age have to do with anything?
im 26, i know i am worth more than that, you would think you would as well.

By calling yourself a Christian I feel I have the right to tell you like it is...first of all she isn't your wife so you have no business touching her of lusting after her. You're coveting (wanting something that isn't yours), second if you do sleep with her you are causing her to be an adultress...if you need to know how serious God takes adultery just look at the Bible...he divorced a nation for it.

Right ON

i think u should leave her alone since she iis married and im sura her man will care after whatever you deside to do if he don't like it

definitley a bad idea. A) you wouldnt want your first time to be so shrouded in secretness. you'd probably get caught at some point and it would end badly. B) If you are christian why would you even consider having sex with a married woman!?

thats like a hundred different sins wrapped into one, adultery, having sex before your married, its all bad and keep your morals intact!

Shawn,

Unfortunately all our actions come with consequences. It may seem really simple: you want it, she wants it and her husband is "okay" with it. However, once you chose to go there, suddenly you will discover there is a host of consequences which perhaps you are too young to appreciate. It could and probably would get complicated.

If advice were of any use it would not be free, so they say, but here's mine anyway: be careful.

Ta

Nina

Hell no! That is participating in not only the degradation of yourself but also in undermining her vows as a woman. Go back read your ten commandments, reread the marriage vows and also the book of Solomon. Also, she probably does this a lot and is highly likely to carry a communicable disease. Not to mention she can get pregnant. Then if you are the bio dad you are on the hook for child support and could be prosecuted for alienation of affection regards her husband - no matter what he says now.

Four times a day is not so bad. Pick someone wonderful, marry her, then have a lot of mind blowing sex. Don't be an idiot.