Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
I am trying my best to abstain from sex outside of marriage.
A strange thing happened. A man that I admire and think the world about calls and asks if we can see each other. (Secretly of course)
Six months ago I would have been delighted. I thought about it and sent him a text that said
"Flatter but can't". It was the hardest thing I have done in months but I felt so good afterwards.
It was so empowering!
A strange thing happened. A man that I admire and think the world about calls and asks if we can see each other. (Secretly of course)
Six months ago I would have been delighted. I thought about it and sent him a text that said
"Flatter but can't". It was the hardest thing I have done in months but I felt so good afterwards.
It was so empowering!
deleted_user
Way to go!!!
deleted_user
Absolutely way to go, I am struggling here, I talk to a friend online and we have gotten close, now he wants to meet and I am pretty sure it's not just to talk, I don't know how to respond because I would like to see if we can grow into more then friends but am scared of my weaknesses at this point. He says he wants the lifetime commitment but I don't know, and I am vulnerable right now. Anyway GOOD FOR YOU! Thanks for inspiring me.
Sara017
Im glad I read this post. It really gives me hope.
deleted_user
I am so proud of myself. Not that I was not tempted to call him back and agree to meet him. I really want a relationship that is not built around sex.
deleted_user
This is the first thread I have read from this community and I am so glad to have found it. It is very encouraging...I hope you don't mind me messaging you for advice, etc. Thanks! :-)
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
