I want to date, but I have trouble. I'm 21 yrs old, and guys freak out when they find out that I am a virgin. They either think I lying, somethings wrong with me, or want me as a trophy. I hate this. Most guys see me as a friend/little sister/in need of protection/they want to take care of me, but they don't want to date me. They want me to go out them them and their friends and hang out. They don't want to do wrong by me, because I have never had sex. Not even consider dating, because "you're too good for me." Like I'm not old enough to make up my own mind. This stinks. I told my best friend I had feelings for him, and asked him why he didn't feel the same way. He said, "You're too good for me, and I don't want to hurt you. But I do care about you." I was crying. He said "Don't want to crush your world." He wouldn't even give me a chance. I hate this. Does this happen to anyone else or am I all alone?
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