Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
I think waiting untill you are married before you have sex not only shows the person you marry how much you love them, but yourself.
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I agree. If I were to do it all over again, I would have chosen that route. Unfortunately, it wasn't like that for me.I love my husband, but sex isn't the only thing we have in our marriage. There is so much more.....
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If not love yourself, then definitely respect yourself a lot....Nothing good is easy and I like a challenge. x
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I wish I stayed celibate, I wouldn't have as much feelings of guilt.
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That is very true. Not only does it speak highly of your own self-respect, but I imagine it would prove to your partner how dedicated and loyal you can be. And that is a good thing. :-)
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it also starts off the relationship with trust. someone once said to me that he knew his wife would never cheat on him because she was a virgin when they got married. she was faithful to him before they met, so why would she be unfaithful after their marriage? that's really stuck with me as such a beautiful thought.
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leogirl, that is so true. I think when you with only one person sexually you hold the act more dearly to your heart. Therefore it is harder to just give it to someone else. There is so much to marrage. Trust is one of the biggest though.
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yup...alot of self respect...it's not good for yourself to be exposed to STD's and pregnancies that can ruin your life...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
