Yeah, I relate...It's how we get there in the heat of the moment we need to avoid. Try not to be alone with a tempting person. I read Every Womans Battle by Steve Arterburn, that helped a lot.

I read Every Young Woman's Battle. I have lent it to soooo many girlfriends I need to get me another copy. You should too. It's a great book w/reasons and practical advice.

You know what helps me in the "heat of the moment?" Two things. I'm a girl, and most of us have something we hate about our bodies, so when things do get hot and heavy, I think OMG! I hate this about my body and he will probably notice too and be put off by it. That would be embarrassing for me.

Another thing that helps is imagining what would happen if he took his pants off and I don't know...let's say, his thing was a teeny-weeny and I'd just burst into laughter. Now that! That would be REALLY embarrasing for him LoL. That always helps me stop with a smile.

I kinda agree with Fadingaway2:) One thing that I know think about is if I do give in and give my body to a man, what if it's not even good. Then it would feel like a waste. And of course this can happen at anytime, but when you wait and you are in love it will be much different. I am not speaking from experience, b/c I have never been in love, I am speaking from God's perspective, which in fact he says to wait until marriage.