
Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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I have always wanted to be abstinent. I just can't seem to do it for very long. I'm sure someone has already posted about this. Sorry. But I need some advice. I can't avoid males forever (and don't want to)!!
What should I do in the heat of the moment?
What should I do in the heat of the moment?
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You know what helps me in the "heat of the moment?" Two things. I'm a girl, and most of us have something we hate about our bodies, so when things do get hot and heavy, I think OMG! I hate this about my body and he will probably notice too and be put off by it. That would be embarrassing for me.
Another thing that helps is imagining what would happen if he took his pants off and I don't know...let's say, his thing was a teeny-weeny and I'd just burst into laughter. Now that! That would be REALLY embarrasing for him LoL. That always helps me stop with a smile.