
Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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Hi everyone,
I am 23 years old (will be 24 in March) and I am still a virgin by choice. I never really felt it was a big issue or even thought about it much really b/c I have only had 2 serious dating relationships in my life (I was VERY shy in highschool). But recently it has been brought into the forefront of my life b/c I have been in a relationship w/ a great guy for 4 yrs., and although he is VERY supportive, it has definatly become an issue. But what I am wondering is: Can you have such a paralyzing fear of the pain of first intercourse, that just thinking of that pain alone will cause you to not want to have sex or delay it for as long as possible? Is there anyone out there that feels this way? I know many people on here have religious reasons for abstaining, but I am looking for those who are abstinant out of fear of pain or just fear of the unknown or unfamiliar in general if that makes sense. Anyone?? :o)
I am 23 years old (will be 24 in March) and I am still a virgin by choice. I never really felt it was a big issue or even thought about it much really b/c I have only had 2 serious dating relationships in my life (I was VERY shy in highschool). But recently it has been brought into the forefront of my life b/c I have been in a relationship w/ a great guy for 4 yrs., and although he is VERY supportive, it has definatly become an issue. But what I am wondering is: Can you have such a paralyzing fear of the pain of first intercourse, that just thinking of that pain alone will cause you to not want to have sex or delay it for as long as possible? Is there anyone out there that feels this way? I know many people on here have religious reasons for abstaining, but I am looking for those who are abstinant out of fear of pain or just fear of the unknown or unfamiliar in general if that makes sense. Anyone?? :o)
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