I would wait. Sometimes, it is better to take some time to really get to know the person. You have so much time ahead of you.
It sounds like this is your first love. Well, I decided to do it with my first love which we thought we were in love with each other until after 9 months of waiting and then deciding to lose my virginity, he ended up cheating on me. Not that I am saying that it will happen to you. I was 17 1/2..I just think that 14 years old, is to young to start having relations like that. Just think before you do. Even though he is a virgin also. Good luck.

I would wait. Sometimes, it is better to take some time to really get to know the person. You have so much time ahead of you.
It sounds like this is your first love. Well, I decided to do it with my first love which we thought we were in love with each other until after 9 months of waiting and then deciding to lose my virginity, he ended up cheating on me. Not that I am saying that it will happen to you. I was 17 1/2..I just think that 14 years old, is to young to start having relations like that. Just think before you do. Even though he is a virgin also. Good luck.

I know you love him and you are really driven to have sex with him but consider this. You have sex with him and you guys love eachother but something comes up and you break up.... you guys both had sex and he took your purity away from you. Now your stuck with that decision for the rest of your life. Wouldnt you want to be with the one who you have sex with, for the first time, forever??(marriage). It is proven that if you wait until your married to have sex it will be so much more enjoyable for both of you. And there's also the threat of pregnancy. There's always that one slim chance and depending on karma and your luck, that slim chance might happen to you. And your so young too. There's a lot to think about before jumping into such a huge decision.

Wait. I'm dying inside today for expression of love in all ways. I'm dying to physically express all I feel today and I'm not even on PMS! It's killing me. You have so many more years to live, not to be pessimistic but realistic that you guys probably won't end up staying together married for the rest of your life. There are so many other opportunities that are going to come your way for your life in general. So exciting. Wait until you know without any doubts that the guy you're with is for forever and you have a ring and are getting married. 14. What if you get pregnant too? No birth control is 100%. I'm not trying to sound like a mother or anything rude. I just want to help and to tell you what I think. You will feel even closer to him afterward but you never know, it might wean off afterward, that often happens. Don't just do it for physical sake even though there are times I definitely WANT to too!! But don't actually do it. Feel like it all you want but please dno't actually do it. Any guy can make you feel special beforehand...

To clarify, you will feel closer to him but he might not. There's a good chance he will not feel closer cause he's a guy. I don't mean that in a rude way toward guys but they're much more physically focused. They can have sex without feeling anything emotional or mental or spiritual a lot more easy than women tend to do. I don't want you to get hurt. Are you guys even boyfriend and girlfriend? You may hope for a deeper relationship afterward, and it could happen, but there's a good chance it won't. Don't get hurt my friend. :)

Being a 18 year old (and having raging hormones lol) I definitely know how it feels to want to give it up. You two should want to have sex, it's normal. Especially if you love each other, but since you want to save yourself for marriage you should be able to have control over what your body wants and stay true to what you know you want in the long run. Look at it this way, if you two are meant to be together, you'll get to one day enjoy that experience together and if your not then you'll know you didn't waste it on the wrong person.

It toughf being a virgin, but in the long run it worth it. SOmetimes I do feel like just losing my virginity. When I hear coworkers and friends chat about how wonderful intercourse is and trying to convince me to lose my virginity. It can be hard, but its my will and determination to find a loving stable relationship that keeps me determined to keep my virginity.

I wouldnt ever give it away on purpose. If you both are in love with each other and if you think he is close to perfect then he should understand but if he doesnt then he most likely dosent love you as much as you do him or he would understand. If you sta a virgin you will have something to look forward to when you get married.