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Don't want to ever have it......

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I just wanted to ask what anyone thinks about someone who doesn't want to ever have a physical relationship with anyone. I have no interest in the idea of having intercourse. I think the whole thing is gross ! I don't want any man to do that to me no way Jose !!!!! What do you all think? Is there anyone out there with the same views as me? If so, let me hear from you!
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I agree that sex is gross
I have some hope that some great guy will show me otherwise some day. But I doubt it. I have not had sex sober in 8 years. I have had it drunk a few times, each time with bitter regretts and resulting in months of mental self induced torture,
So I don't drink I don't date I don't have sex. I get asked out, and I get really embarrassed, i never do go.
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well... i don't know if should say this, but you asked... i think it's a little weird. i doubt if you were truly in love with somebody you would think it's gross. it's necessary for the survival of our species, so for us to think of it as gross doesn't seem natural to me. But not everything is for everybody so, be who you are.
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Everyone is wired differently. Most are wired to propagate the species. I would love to have some healthy and natural sex in a relationship, but I just haven't found/met one yet. Mayhap I never will as long as I'm a serf indentured to USA Inc.
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