
Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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I am 39 years old and I was married since I was 21 years old. Since by divorce, I have met some really nice men and enjoy hanging out but the dating scene has changed. I don't know what the boundries are around being affectionate.
I enjoy affection like kissing and hugging but do not plan to have sex. I don't want to lead anyone on. I also don't want to say on our second date " I am saving myself for marriage". Seeing that the men I am dealing with are all over 35 and most have been married.
Any suggestions or comment will be appreciated.
I enjoy affection like kissing and hugging but do not plan to have sex. I don't want to lead anyone on. I also don't want to say on our second date " I am saving myself for marriage". Seeing that the men I am dealing with are all over 35 and most have been married.
Any suggestions or comment will be appreciated.
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