
Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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I didn't do it on purpose, but I have been abstinent for a year. It feels good to know that I haven't made it important to get laid this year, especially because I'm 21. I stayed off drugs, alcohol, and sex this year and so for it makes me feel good. I am going off to college in a few weeks and I know that it will help me do better in school if I'm not wondering constantly, when am I going to get laid again. It's so stupid. I want to stay this way. I hope I find someone out there who believes in sex after marriage. I have made the mistake of having sex before getting to know the person first and it always ends badly. I wish I could go back in time and change things, but it doesn't work that way.
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Agreed. :-)
I have no doubts there are girls out there who have the same beliefs as you, I just wish that there were more guys out there like you...but I remain hopeful.
No, it does work that way, but if you did not have that experience, you probably would not be able to appreciate your second chance to start anew...I have a 'no regrets' policy, and you should adopt it too! :-)
It's very difficult for me, being a sailor and having all of my aquaintances talking about it all the time and trying to 'set me up' at every port we make. I can't let myself go because of my old-world values. I still believe in the sanctity of the marriage bed.
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