I've been sexually active for about 3 years. I lost my virginity about 3 years ago to a girl i had only been dating for a few weeks and I still regret that decision. Since than, I've gotten into partying and have had sex with several girls. Most people my age, especially almost all my friends, don't feel that as a bad thing but I still regret ever doing it in the first place because i still wish i was a virgin. When i was younger i made a promise to myself and God that I was going to wait til marriage but I've broken that promise too many times. About 3 weeks ago I had a one-night stand and the next day I decided I was done with having sex til marriage. The pressure is all around me but i making progress toward this pact I've once again made with myself and God. I recently quit drinking and partying and focusing more on classes and going to church and hanging out with people who aren't into random sex and partying. Also, the girl I'm secretly in love with is also a virgin and that also makes it easier for me to stay abstinent in hopes of dating her in the near future. I was just wondering if anyone on here has at one point been sexually active and than just decided to quit til marriage and what was the motivation behind your decision?