Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
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Me and my boyfriend have had sex a couple times before then all of a sudden he compleatly lost interest and then when I asked him about it he told me that he found sex completly repulsive. Our relationship is very good were heading on 2 years. We havent had sex in about a year or more.
But I guess my question is that do any of you come to a point where you just find sex repulsive and then only want a relationship based on abstinence.
Honestly this frustrates me but since I love him to death I bite my tounge and deal with having no sex.Its also difficult to get him to be affectionate I kind of have to force that on him but he doesnt mind when I do Its just the whole sex thing that bothers him.
But I guess my question is that do any of you come to a point where you just find sex repulsive and then only want a relationship based on abstinence.
Honestly this frustrates me but since I love him to death I bite my tounge and deal with having no sex.Its also difficult to get him to be affectionate I kind of have to force that on him but he doesnt mind when I do Its just the whole sex thing that bothers him.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I must honestly say that no, I have never, ever gotten like that befofe.
Maybe talk with him and find out directly why it repulses him so much and see if there is something that you could do to change his viewpoint of it. OR, maybe there is something that he can do to change his own viewpoint of it.
Sex is a gift from God and whould be enjoyed between two people deeply in love.
The best of luck!
My last relationship was a real long one. After awhile the attraction was there, but the closeness was more then just having sex with her. So the relationship became something else then how it started as we grew to really care about each other, which in turn, somehow turned in to less sex, but more closeness and togetherness.
But I do believe that it is a phycological thing and partially a med thing.
He isnt willing to go to a councler I think that its a pride thing.