I'm sorry that you feel bad. The decision to wait can be really difficult, but it is worth it! Don't beat yourself up too much about last night. Just resolve to stick to your decision to wait from this point forward.

Dude, dude! Don't beat yourself up!!!

C'mon. You're human, right? You're not some creature from the Black Lagoon or a monster from a sick story...

Just be sure to explain to him that you're not going to do that again. And don't put yourself in that kind of situation again... Hopefully he'll be nice and smart enough to stop it next time if you can't.

And if it does happen again... Just forgive yourself and try, try again...

If it comes down to it, release your need to wait til marriage. I doubt you'll be 'bad' enough to go this far... But your body is biologically revving up it's engines to have a freaking sex-a-thon.

I thought teen years were bad... Whew, twenties it just gets worse. (For me, anyway.)

Just make sure your safe. Every time. And your partner has been checked. As amazing as condoms are, they still don't stop everything!!!

And on top of that, if you're not on birthcontrol simply because you're abstinant, forget that. You're body can reap many benefits from BC, I'm sure you've heard - clearer skin, regulated periods, etc etc etc... So it's not a bad idea even if you're not sleeping with anyone.

*thumbs up*

You're not a screw up. You're simply human.

thanks guys i appreciate it:)

i don't know what made me feel really bad this time... this guy and i have been over the conversation of "lets not do this and this but we can do this..." so many times and "i feel so bad..."

ha this morning i was just thinking, man... things aren't going to get easier as i get older are they??

thanks again guys for helping out