Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group

The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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deleted_user
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I got caught doing something with a boy that i wasn't supposed to be doing. And now its all over my school. It's only a matter of time before my parents find out. What should I do?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Is it all over school as in... people talking? Because if so... just deny it.

"That isnt true! Why would people say that about me?"
kiwicsi
kiwicsi
Hmm, maybe honesty is the best policy here. What sort of relationship do you have with your parents? If it's a good one, perhaps you could tell them before they hear it second hand. They ought to respect you for that at least.
drbeaker
drbeaker
I'd agree that openness and honesty is the best policy on this one.
RoxyE
RoxyE
I kinda agree with fersure I guess it depends on if your ready to be viewed like that by your parents.
JustShootMeNow
JustShootMeNow
The only people you need to fess up to is your parents. When someone at school asks you, politely say, "This is a private matter that concerns me and my family. Please respect my privacy and don't discuss this with me or anyone else."
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree. You should just be honest with your parents. It's better they hear it from you rather from someone else!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just wait until they confront you and then be honest to salvage some trust...
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