My most trusted orthapedic surgeon down here was in his own practise. He had done 6 orth ops on me, 5 were emergencies. all went well. Then our gov put up the indeminty insurance for each surgeon to 60 thou a year, plus costs of running a practise on your own. Found out later he was also head of orthapedics at our public hospital, but he switched to consulting only, couldnt even do a blood sugar test on me as breaking the skin. I needed another urgent op, so he referred me, after much questioning from me, as didnt feel right about it. In the end he said I made him my registrar, that is who I am sending you to today. Told him that didnt make me feel any better about him just because of that fact, but where he referrred me and he was a private specelist in a private hospital. Should have followed my own instints and refused to see him. Made an absolute mess of it, and need a more serious op now, but cant have due to other problems, which is how I ended up a bit disabled. My other specialist saw me limping for my regular blood test a couple of years later, and said what now? Just looked at him, that useless surgeon you insisted I have do my knee op thats what. So he asked me a few things, said sometimes things do go wrong, and this is what you need, but I know your history well, you cant have it. So really its all chance when it comes down to it.
Posts You May Be Interested In
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...