It is important to keep busy; but don't run away from grieving. The best way I stay involved as well as doing healing work is to journal on a regular basis. After I have had a busy day, it is really important to try to get a good night's sleep!

I have gone back to work and I remember when he visited my work and he was wanting to buy a Dallas Cowboy Jersey and well i happen to pass by that section of the store I work @ and I see that jersey there and I am waiting to see him again.
I stay occupied or work on the computer for my photography business but it is so hard.

this is what I did at first. But it doesn't work anymore

Yes,working takes my mind off my problems.

Reading emails of encouragement, devotionals and scripture based resources.

This works for as long as I can keep busy until I return home and the instinct to eat returns.

Durring th day I'd keep myself from thinking about it by keeping myself busy .. but then at night, or when I was alone, I'd just cry. I'd cry till my eyes couldn't make anymore tears.

I did charity work.

Helps

Hard to keep from crying at my desk though