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rebeljen 
12:45pm, August 9, 2008
A CO-WORKER AND FRIEND OF MINE DIED IN A CAR ACCIDENT AT 1:30 AM ON THE 24TH OF OCTOBER. WE DON'T KNOW ALL THE DETAILS YET BUT IT IS POSSIBLE THE WOMAN WHO HIT HIM WAS DRUNK. SHE'S IN A COMA NOW AND NO ONE KNOWS IF SHE'LL WAKE UP. HE LEFT BEHIND A WIFE AND 2 KIDS. THIS HAS ME IN A FUNK. THE THOUGHT OF GOING TO ANOTHER FUNERAL THIS YEAR JUST MAKES ME ILL BUT I'LL GO OUT OF RESPECT FOR HIM AND HIS FAMILY. IT JUST MAKES ME REALLY, REALLY SAD. NOW EVERYONE SAYS THIS HAPPENS IN 3'S SO WHO'S GONNA BE NEXT??? MY HUSBAND WAS AT THE END OF A GROUP OF 3 DEATHS. I WISH EVERYONE WOULDN'T SAY THIS CAUSE IT JUST MAKES ME SAD. AND I THINK IT IS SILLY SUPERSTITION. WHY DO WE TORTURE OURSELVES IN THINKING THESE THOUGHTS????
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Soryy to hear about all of your losses. That's really sad and heavy. Maybe one day we will all know why things happen in our lives the way they do. I wish and had the answers but for now I can only offer you warm thoughts, prayers and sending love your way.
LouiseLr
Sorry to hear about the loss. I too, no how you feel about happening in 3. So Here is a hug. It is so hard to go and be supportive when we feel so blue. On the day Harry died a very dear friend and church member died. Harry past around 10:35 am and she died at 11;00. This was so hard for me. On my way to the hospital I drove by her house. I knew something happened I knew she was dead, it was after 1:00 pm. All her children sat on the steps, I knew I would be getting the call. Little did I know that Harry was already in Heaven. The news that I would recieve in just a few short moments. Broken and torn I went to that funeral. But could not stay. My whole church family was in sorrow. Two members went home that week. But a comforting thought was that they were at the foot of Jesus together that day, only a few moments apart. Oh what a reuion it must have been for the two of them. Drinking and driving don't mix. And you would think people would realize the things that could happen. It could change in a moment as we saw there. I will pray that God will use to be the light. That you will have strength. And you will be able to help them in their time of need. Dear friend, as you go may you find comfort, that you do not go alone, the spirit will go forth before you and with you. You will be loved and cared for at this time. Just a little note to let you know that I am thinking of you. Praying for you. God bless you.
eileenR
I am so sorry Jen. You need to actually tell those people who say that how much it affects those who are in mourning and that it gives all of us a feeling of despair. I will be keeping you and this family in my prayers. Hugs, Vera~Erick's mom
Ericksmom