Hi, mine name is Wilma, and writing …
Hi, mine name is Wilma, and writing in here to see if anyone else can give me advice on how to deal with losing my …
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daddyslittlegirl90 
12:11pm, November 11, 2009
i cant grit my teeth any harder theyll fuckin fall out. ive had to give my mum a few home truths and all she does is laugh.. she hates me and thats offical but hey ho i dont give a flyig cow but im not gonna sit back and let her screw up these kids lives too..
too late for me but ill be damned if shes getting her claws into them... i wrote a poem abpout her yesterday. ill post it up soon, it may seem a bit harsh but i DO love her and i cant help what shes done to me so hope i dont sound to cruel for writing it. coz its true anyways im not just having a hissy fit lol. ive been really careful about how ive done things with her.. ive sat back and just observed her and the way she is with the kids. then ive weighed it up and noticed shes doing it to them to.. when shes wound me up.. ive walked off, gave myself and her time to cool off and then gone back and said '' we need to talk and she just shrugs it off n off down the pub.. if she aint gonna listen im gonna bloody well make her see what she is coz i cant stick it anymore. my heads gonna flippin explode if she tries to feed me anymore bullshit
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Hold you temper and don't even try when she comes back from a pub as we know she won't remember anything you say....Sending you so much positive strength, Good Luck Hon....XXOO
LeeAnn
i do hun.. i hold my temper. i try to talk to her calmly but shes so damn frustrating, i try to say things as nice as i can n then she brings hurtful things into it, like my dad and things.. winds me up to boiling point and she knows it but i still hold my calm because i have a very true saying that ive stuck to for year... ''he who conquers you, angers you''
daddyslittlegirl90
i hit her with a damn lot of home truths today trying not to say them in a nasty way and she just laughed everyone of them off, she really upset my little sister and then called her pathetic for cying and it really knocked me back to when i was that age and i let her hurt me like that.. i dont let her anymore ill never show her if shes hurt me because ive come to realise our tears are her fuel. nd not gonna sit back watch her do the same to jade. she is moulding her and manipulating her the same way she has me and my older sister.. the way she talks to all of them is disgusting. she should have been steralized at birth coz she dont deserve them kids and if she cant see how lucky she is then thats her loss but not having them suffering for it.
daddyslittlegirl90
Your doing the right thing by letting yourself calm down hun, you dont want to say something that is going to change things forever, and you dont want things tio turn the wrong way either.
Goon on you for standing for what you think is right! xx
Tigerz43
what did she do? its hard to respond because i don't know the details. i used to stay away from home as much as possible. i was always outside as a kid and later on i worked, so i was always either in school or work or out, if i wasn't being "home" was not tops, though compared to other people's stories of abuse, i know that that's not that bad and compared to other people's dads criminal record (though NONE have ever gone to jail, they are too rich and can bribe the system too easily for that) though compared to other's dads he wasn't as serially criminal as their's. lol. more like bad judgements here and there and negligence and hopefully that is where we are at now as well, would freak me out if i discover otherwise. now stepmother stuff, i can really say things, ditto on stepsister...lol. but it balances, i've had good ones too, and more good ones than bad ones. so maybe its key to keep the circles of people as large as possible, because it ups the odds with getting to know a few good ones out of all the soso ones and just plain evil ones.
i don't think your mother is evil. and i do think she tries to express her love by buying you things and by not being physically abusive and maybe in order to not fall into that (as long ago adults took out their own personal frustrations by beating up the people around them, especially kids) she drinks instead. what is happening with her kidney ailment anyway? that worries me. there is a book called "you're okay, i'm okay" i never read it, but i know when it came out all the parents were reading it and things got a lot calmer in general out there from this best seller. they still coin that phrase now. you can always pick one up and give it to her, maybe it would work for her too? i am sure the book wouldn't allow namecalling, especially to a child...
79pounds
I dont think anyone will ever understand your Mother, I dont think she knows how to behave with you or her children. Its no good trying to talk to her when shes been drinking, i dont know what the answer is. I hate to hear people talking to children that way, they will grow up to have no respect at all.
Please try not to get too uptight about it, it wont do you any good. Easier said than done I know,I would be the same as you, Its just not fair, on you or the children.
Hope y our friend is doing ok. At least you can talk to him about it all.
Try to keep calm. Thinking of you. xxx
bonnytiz
no 79.. i ove her to bits but can honestly say she IS evil.. the things she says are disgusting. shes so selfish and cruel.. she said to me one time. its a good job my chances of kids are slim coz judging by the way her horrible kids behave i would make a ribbish mum... like a dagger straight through my gut i could almost taste the vomit riddling inside me. the way her mind works is vindictive and cruel and it is deliberate.. her way of thinking is i love babies but hate kids ill have as many as i want coz becky is a mug n will take over as soon as im bored with them. dont really have a choice in it. she buys me stuff not to buy my love but to make me think i need her because she needs me n couldnt keep up her stupid, selfish, childish lifestyle without me. arghhhh shes just sooo pathetic.. shes not bad all the time.. i mean i can do 5minute conversations with her before i get stressed n have to leave the room before i get angry
daddyslittlegirl90
a situation like that, i think i'd already be gone. its not psychologically healthy. a dorm at college would be healthier than that. its not worth it. sometimes you have to think of yourself. mental/emotional abuse is supposed to be the most damaging of all the abuses.
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