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JoJo21 
I wanna find my birthmom......
how do I start looking?
I don't have thousands of dollers to spend?
but then again, idk if I wanna find her.
how would she feel to know her daughter was a disappointment?
She isn't a good daughter, she isn't a good wife and acording to my mother in law and grandma in law, I'm not a good mother and shouldn't of had Victoria cuz I'm a terrible mom
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Start by doing online searches for her. There are also online services to help adoptee's. She may be looking for you to.
Start by contacting the adoption agency or lawyer that handled your adoption. There is a possibility they have a letter for you. It is legal for the birth mom to leave contact info if she wants to be in touch but not legal for them to just give you the info if she doesn't want to be in touch with you.
One note of caution. My friend found her birthmom and the door was slammed in her face. Literally she slammed the door in my friend's face. It took years for my friend to recover from that experience. Be sure you are ready to face whatever may come...you may be happier to spend the time building strong relationships with your adoptive family and your daughter.
Good Luck.
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