My name is Andrea. I'm a 44 …
My name is Andrea. I'm a 44 yr old woman living in Ohio my herd of cats & ferrets. I was DXed with Fibro in …
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Nevaeh811 
11:43pm, October 30, 2009
New news from me!!! Just found out yesterday in an email, that my husband(we are split, but still legally married)has a girlfriend who is pregnant!!!! i don't even know how to respond to this....what am i suppose to do?! when i first found out i cried and cried. he told me this a week before the 1 year anniversary of the time we lost our baby. will my life ever just be normal?! the news hit me so hard
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That really blows. I will be praying for you. But, I would go ahead and divorce him and move on with your life. I know it's hard, but he's being really insensitive, among other things. I think you deserve better, and to sever your ties to him would be a start. You don't deserve to be hurt like this. Your life will be normal, soon.
DotsMama
“When will you understand that being normal isn't necessarily a virtue? It rather denotes a lack of courage.”
I think you knew that things were over between you two and the news pretty much put enough of a finalization to the situation. What I think is happening is that he may have some resentment to you because of the loss of the baby and he is being rude and inconsiderate.
As for what to do...... why let him get to you? You both are seeing new people right? Why not be happy for him that he is able to move on and be happy and for yourself that you have found someone who will be there to support you. You appear to be getting angry over the news and I think that you still haven't quite let him go and you are feeling some resentment towards him.
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. ~Author Unknown
It is the will of God and Nature that these mortal bodies be laid aside, when the soul is to enter into real life; 'tis rather an embrio state, a preparation for living; a man is not completely born until he be dead: Why then should we grieve that a new child is born among the immortals? ~Benjamin Franklin, 22 February 1756
rennikc
That is a lot of news to take in. I am sorry that you are going through all of this. Try not to let it get down too much. I am here for you if you need anything. Take care
joie
That really sucks, I'm sorry you have to add that to this list of things to worry about. I agree with the others that you should focus on you right now.
PrioleauLuv
You have to be kidding.... I just came across this entry,and the same thing happened to me ....I was going to go to reno to surprise my X....we haven't been apart for long ,so I thought she would be happy to see me .....so I bought a ticket to reno ....while I'm on my way to the airport ....no shhhh I GET AN E-MAIL ....saying that she is prego ,and getting married in two months .......from the heart broke Jensen.....Oh I still went to reno ....her parents love me and wish that she was marrying me ............stay on the prowl there are great people every where you look......
yenyjay
grief is a personal emotion, you will deal better and better with your lost as time goes on, dont b 2 hard on urself. good luck for 2008, i really hope you find an inter happiest and peace.
helsjels