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  • About Me

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    madea7

    Female, 68, Married
    NC, USA
    Member since July 29, 2007

    • About Me

      I have been a professional caregiver (LPN, Clergy) for most of my life. I was a caregiver for my cousin for 8 years and my mother for 10. This is the hardest job I have ever had. Recently my husband has had open heart surgery to repair a bad valve and we are in the recuperating stage of that. Other than that, I have fibromyalgia which for the most part is under control. I do have my flares, but try hard to work & stretch through them.

      I have been a professional caregiver (LPN, Clergy) for most of my life. I was a caregiver for my cousin for 8 years and my mother for 10. This is the hardest job I have ever had. Recently my husband has had open heart surgery to repair a bad valve and we are in the recuperating stage of that. Other than that, I have fibromyalgia which for the most part is under control. I do have my flares, but try hard to work & stretch through them.

    • Interests

      I am a multi-faceted person who enjoys crafting when given the time. Mostly knitting and sewing, but am trying hard to regain the steady hand for sketching & painting. Besides that I spend much time keeping in touch with my family - 4 grown children who have given us 10 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. We have also begun a small enterprise of raising Emu and goats. When all else fails, we love to just get in the car or our small RV and hit the road to sites not known or visit with friends and/or family.

      I am a multi-faceted person who enjoys crafting when given the time. Mostly knitting and sewing, but

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  • Journal

    • Sooooo long

      Mood September 27, 2009 6:46pm

      Hi all, I can't believe it has been so very long since my last journal entry.  Guess life just caught up with me and I lost track of the …

    • home from funeral

      Mood May 1, 2009 10:03pm

      Well, we buried Mom yesterday.  She is at rest with Dad who has been gone over 30 years.  It was such a long trip and a week of all sorts …
    • The End has come

      Mood April 25, 2009 12:19pm

      Well dear D/S friends.  After much suffering for the past month and a half, my Mom was finally released from her pain.  She died on April …
    • today and more

      Mood March 26, 2009 11:51pm

      Well, Tuesday Mom decided that she was not going to take her meds again.  These are the ones that are supposed to keep her comfortable.  …

    • It seems that the sadness just continues

      Mood March 17, 2009 11:18pm

      Yesterday I received a call from the doctor at Mom's nursing home.  That is never good news!  They were considering sending her out to …

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      From JOYHOLY October 2

      YOU HAVE MY 100% SUPPORT ON YOUR GOAL ACHIEVEMENT,GO AHEAD AND DON'T LET ANYBODY STOP YOU,WITH LOVE LUCY..

    • Rainbow

      From JOYHOLY August 20

      HELLO AND SHALOM [THE PEACE OF GOD THE FATHER AND THE LORD JESUS BE WITH YOU].I HAVE SEEN YOUR PRAYER REQUEST FOR YOUR DAUGHTER,I AM NOT IN THAT GROUP,JUST COME ACROSS,I AM SORRY THAT SO MANY CHRISTIANS DO SUCH A BAD JOB AT NOT INTERCEDING FOR THOSE IN NEED OF PRAYER,IT IS A PRECIOUS GIFT AND HONOUR TO GO TO THE 'LORD IN PRAYER'PLEASE ACCEPT MY APOLOGIES AS A FOLLOWER OF JESUS CHRIST,IT IS VERY SAD,THAT SO CALLED CHRISTIANS BEHAVE IN SUCH FASHION.PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW YOUR DAUGHTER IS DOING AND YOUR HUSBAND,FOR I CARE IN CHRISTIAN LOVE.HEAVENLY FATHER ,LORD OF HEAVEN AND EARTH,BLESS THIS FAMILY IN ALL THEIR TRIALS AND TROUBLES ESPECIALLY THE DAUGHTER,FREE HER FROM HER ABUSIVE HUSBAND IN 'JESUS NAME',GIVE HER WISDOM AND GUIDE HER BY YOUR HOLY SPIRIT TO KEEP HERSELF SAFE,I ASK THE PROTECTION OF YOUR HOLY ANGELS TO SURROUND HER ALL THE TIME ,I COVER HER WITH THE DIVINE BLOOD OF THE LORD JESUS CHRIST,NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST HER SHALL PROSPER,I BIND AND BRING TO NO EFFECT ANY DEMONIC ATTACKS THAT COME AGAINST HER IN THE PRECIOUS NAME OF THE SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST,SHOW YOUR LOVINKINDNESS,HEALING AND SUPPLY OF ALL NEEDS IN 'JESUS NAME,AGAPE LOVE LUCY..

    • Hug

      From CrisChristian March 1

      PS please see all my comments. God Bless.

    • I’m With You

      From CrisChristian March 1

      I am so sorry that your last five journal entries had no comments. I hope people at least messaged you. I don't know it your up to it but you may want to look into adding some of the newer members to your friends list. I know I need to update mine as well because I'm not sure a lot of my other friends even come on here anymore. Please write me anytime. Please keep in touch as you have time. Love you. Love Cris

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      From HILLY October 2, 2008

      i am confuse i am not leaving noplace , when did i say i was? i am confuzzled, hmmmmm.

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Caregivers

      I cared for Mom & her cousin for a total of 10 years. It was very difficult because if one was up, the other was down. After the passing of our cousin, Mom has became very difficult and has asked me to leave. Her final 15 months were spent in a nursing home as a result of 3 doctors ordering it. That did not make life easier, but sometimes more difficult.

      Treatments

      Prayer Working / Worked
      A very difficult and frustrating situation. But God gave me the grace to get through it all.
    • Close Dementia

      I was a caregiver for my mother & her cousin for a total of 10 years. Both had different levels of dementia. Our cousin died in January 2007. Mom was so cleaver that she wais able to hide her dementia from everyone who doesn't see her on a daily basis. It was so sad because she was hurting herself. She also was prone to TIAs (mini strokes) and refused to discuss any of it with her doctors. Finally the doctors caught up with her and placed her in a facility.

    • Open Military Families

      Our family is very involved in the military. My husband is a Korea area vet, one son is a commissioned officer in the Full Time Army Reserve, the other is full time Army. Our oldest grandson is Army and our grandson-in-law is Air Force. Even our godson was in the Navy until he was injured. We support and pray for our troops and our president. We don't really know what either the troops or our President have to go through on a daily basis in order to "get the jobs done."

    • Open Diets & Weight Maintenance

      My weight piled on when we became empty nesters. I used to be so thin. Now I look in the mirror and say who is that? I also find that I am a compulsive eater when under stress. I am working on this.

      Treatments

      Atkins Diet Working / Worked
      Worked when I was able to stick to it.
      Counting Calories Not Working
      I keep forgetting to count.
      Eat Less Working / Worked
      Did work until dh brings in a treat & sits on my lap.
      Physical Exercise Somewhat Helpful
      Had to quit the workouts when I got to busy with caregiving. No energy left over afterwards.
    • Open Panic Attacks

      In July 2007 my doctor suggested that it isn't asthma, but probably Anxiety Attacks. She asked me to try Klonpin, at least for sleep. Three days later was a bad attack, with shaking and was told to take a second pill. I was amazed when it worked! This should have been diagnosed several years ago. Bottom line is that now when things are bad & I feel that tightness in my chest, I take a half pill and it normally works. It helps, there is no more shaking and I can breath without difficulty.

      Treatments

      Klonopin Working / Worked
      No more asthma or spells of shaking. I count on it after 2 years.
      Meditation Considering
      This used to relax me so much. But now the phone rings when I try it, so it has not been much good. Thinking about taking the phone off the hook so I can get back to it.
      Patience Not Working
      Times are so bad with everything that I, who used to be a very patient person, no longer have tolerance for much.
      Positive Thinking Somewhat Helpful
      It has been a factor in my life to always look for the positive side of everything. Sometimes it works, sometimes I have to get away from the situation to give it time to work.
    • Open Fibromyalgia

      Was actually diagnosed in 1994. It has been an up & down hill climb ever since. Sometimes the muscles knot up the size of a pencil. Have had some pain relief, but not much. Always looking for a new one.

      Treatments

      Acupressure Working / Worked
      I do this one on myself. It is very painful, but the muscles do eventually stop the spasms.
      Acupuncture Somewhat Helpful
      Some pain relief, but muscle spasms so intense the needles got stuck. Dr discontinued the therapy.
      Calcium Working / Worked
      Since the dr added this for osteoporosis prevention, some of the spasms are not as strong as before.
      Heat Somewhat Helpful
      Moist heat sometimes helps me sleep. But way to time consuming for during the day.
      TENS Working / Worked
      Sometimes I walk around with this thing connected so I can use it on & off. This is especially true on long trips.
      Holistic Health Working / Worked
      I am taking a new sublingual pill. I am finding that this gives relief except for the biggies of this disease.
    • Open Empty Nests

      The kids are all grown and gone. In fact, our daughter has also become an empty-nester . At this stage, we either become depressed and lonely, or jump back into life with new vigor. I have found this is the time to explore the many opportunities I have not had the time to do in the past. I am having a blast!

      Treatments

      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      Did lots of that in the beginning. Kept both me & my mind busy.
      Writing Working / Worked
      Did some writing as a way to keep memories alive so I didn't cry so much.
    • Open War in Iraq

      This war is the result of people coming to our land (country) and attacking us. The end result is this war where we took the fighting back the the lands of those who attacked us. We still have relative peace at home while the battle surges on upon other soil.

    • Open Myofascial Pain Syndrome

      Was injured in auto accident in 1993. Doctors all claimed I developed myofacial pain syndrome. Now, all these years later my primary care sent me to a rhumatologist who has diagnosed it as fibro with arthritis. So, guess all those other things they said no longer apply.

    • Open Families & Friends Of Addicts

      Have known teenagers and adults who have become addicted to various OTC meds. Really I am looking for advice on this matter because of the ppl I have met with these problems.

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