Join Now
keepmegoing 
10:34am, November 16, 2009
Yesterday went by so quickly. The funeral home did such a wonderful job on Robert. So many comments about how young he looked, he didn't look sick, you took such good care of him....Many family, friends and former co-workers came and paid their last respects. The Knights of Columbus came and did the rosary with the color guard. What a beautiful ceremony! I know Rob would have said not to fuss but, he would also have like to service. Our friend, Sue from our church, did the prayer service in the evening and again, was a beautiful service. My family were wonderful, taking care of so much for me. I was thankful, but, at the same time saddened for my father-in-law, as Rob's sister didn't show. I know Rob didn't want her there but, out of respect for dad, I was going to allow her to stay. Heck, they didn't even bother to send a floral arrangement with "brother" on it. I guess we know where we rank with them.
Today is the funeral mass and burial. The weather isn't the greatest, rain predicted. Oh, well, I won't melt. I planned on food for 75, I just hope we have at least 50 show so there isn't so much left over. I won't have to cook for a few days, that's for sure. I know my sisters and brother will surround me today and are there whenever I need them. Tomorrow, I will go and be with Rob's aunt as she will be burying her husband. Lord, please help see me through these upcoming days.....
Comments
Brenda, I know that this is hard for you. You have been on my mind since you told me about Rob's death. As for his sister, her day will come and then she will understand. Remember that God won't put on you any more than you can bare. Someone told me that when it rains during a funeral it is the angels crying with happiness welcoming someone to Heaven. That thought gave me some comfort. I will be praying for you today and especially the days to come after the funeral. You are a strong woman and you can handle today but if you need to break down, that is alright, too. I love you, Martha
2stressed
Have had you on my mind and in my heart. These are some tough days you and your family are going thru. My prayers are with you. Sounds like things are going as you planned, and that is good. I have no boubt that you took wonderful care of Rob--but you know, I also believe that God has this wand that He just kinda waves over someone --especially someone who has been so sick, and in His love and wisdom --Poof--makes them look beautiful-- like thay had not even been sick. He knows what visions get stuck in our head. Am I making sense? Know that I love you- wish I could come to Mich.--- I may try to call later tonight. Let me know by email if it is a good time as I know you will be exhausted. I will be forever greatful to Him for sending you to me thru DS!!
hrenee
You know I am thinking about you and your children today. May God be with you and give you peace.
Diann
Chabree
Wow Keepmegoing! My you feel the strength of our Lord Jesus Christ's arms holding you and your family today and in the comings days as you struggle through this valley. In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen. Cindi
EagleMom
It truly is a peace that passes all understanding , that is carrying you through these final days. God is good. We don't understand why or how, but, we are all apart of the Divine plan. Thank You Jesus. What parish was Rob buried out of?
keepingon
Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary in Bridgeport.
keepmegoing
We are all praying for you and also your Aunt! They say death is never easy but in some ways it is when someone has been so ill or bedridden for so long. Rob and you had a beautiful life together....remember all the good times and loving times!
Rob's sister will have to face someday that her priorities were wrong and the way she treated you both.
May The Lord God wipe your tears and help you thru the next months!
Loads and loads of love sent your way!
Love Rhea
tiredtiredtired
Thinking of you today and always surrounding you with prayer...love, sharon
slc123