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scarlet1234 
2:39pm, October 18, 2009
well all cant get any worse as i have been at hospital with back pain after crash ans brittle bone
i have gained weight lots no reason at all
and then top it of my pore mum has gone to hospital for here alzhmiers and i feel so bad 
i no helping her but at same time feel am doing wrong bye leaveing her i no she be ok and its helping me dad rest do him good
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Man scarlet, do you think all this stress you have had let you to your weight gain? You make sure you mother is being properly taken care of and you will feel less stressed. You body should bounce back. I know it is hard to send a loved one away but if you and your dad can't keep up with her than this is a very good decision. I know you will still feel bad because it is your family. But try to find a way to live above this dissapointment in your life. You have a lot to offer! Hugs!
lizgirl
Dont feel bad about leaving your Mum, its the only thing you could do, you and your Dad need some rest, and she will be being well looked after, the weight gain will be due to stress, dont worry about that now.
Try and get some rest while your Mum is away, it will do you good.I know you will feel bad about it but it cant be helped and she will be ok.
Get some rest whilst you can.
love and hugs. xx
bonnytiz