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just when you think everything is starting to go ok something else comes up behind you to kick you in the butt.
i am sick of being in debt!! and jim doesnt seem bothered by it at all. is it me, or do men seem completely indifferent to if they lose their car, house, whatever or not? winds my bobbin right up!!!!
if he doesnt call the car company today they will come and take the car away as he hasnt bothered to make payments for the last god knows how long. i ask him to do one simple thing LAST WEEK. call the car company and tell them he gives them permission to talk to me so i can sort it out - he lies and tells me he has done it, so i call to talk to them - oh no sorry mrs murray, we havent spoken to your husband for a long time!!! - now they are closing the account and will want the car back - STUPID IDIOT!!!! ARRRGGGHHH men make me sooooo mad! god damn it!
there..... feel bit better now
well, lets see what happens when he gets home - i knwo what will happen - he will sit himself down adn say " i will do it in a while - i am tired" whinging like a child. i will get mad and end up going to work tonight with a knot in my stomach, worrying for the both of us.
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Life seems to unfair sometimes but I guess we didn,t come with a guarantee it would be :(
You seem to have made a great start sorting things out seeing the debt counsellor, so hang in there and YOU WILL MAKE IT.
Maybe Jim is just not able to face up to it all....I think an awful lot of men have ostrich syndrome.
Just remember we are here for you and you can vent whenever you need to it can help sometimes.
It has taken me a VERY long time to realise that getting mad with my hubby just makes it all more difficult, if I yell at him ( and I used to do it all the time ) he just switches off and it is ME that ends up feeling worse.
YOU ARE STRONG.....I KNOW IT WOULD BE GREAT TO HAVE A STRONG MAN TO LEAN ON BUT SEEMS LIKE YOU ARE THE ONE AT THE MOMENT.
So lean on me if it helps at all.
hugs, elljay
elljay