Journal Entry for September 24, 2007
my H came back hom from a 6 days trip. He was very happy to come home, and for the longest time i could felt the love through his eye contact, …
my H came back hom from a 6 days trip. He was very happy to come home, and for the longest time i could felt the love through his eye contact, …
i don't know why i am not the one who made the mistake. but i felt worse as if i was the one who messed up. why the world is so unfair to good …
thanks to everyone who had joint my discussion. it's been really helpful. i was at the lowest point of my life. and just think about i have never …
I signed up Daily Strength a week ago. because i really like the name "daily strength" that's exactly what i need to get through …
I'm w/ ya babe!! My husband hasn't had sex w/ another woman &/or pro, but wtf do i know... maybe he has. but, i do know, that he had a relationship w/ another woman (phone conversations) and he , also, uses the phrase.. I've been a god boy, I haven't talked to her. Once again..wtf.. we SHOULDN'T have to scratch them behind the ears for being faithful. but we, DO, have to either move on or out.. or it will eat us alive. glad you're in therapy; this is a bit of therapy too. write any time, if just to vent. that always helps me. take care
Don't be sad. Be glad you found out what a monster your husband is, so you can get tested for STDs and get the hell out of his bed. Sex addiction isn't something he picked up from a toilet seat. He decided to fuck other women while he was married to you. Let's not make this a "disease." Counseling will not help him. It will help you to find out why you would consider staying in such an abusive situation and it might teach you to be able to trust other men, now that your whore-fucking husband has done this to you.. Mediation is cheaper than divorce lawyers. Get your life back and find a decent guy. They do exist. You can do it. Good luck Sweet Heart!
i'm seeing a counselor too and it does cost a fortune. i am also seeing my priest, he's awesome. i'm going to a group called s-anon on monday. it's for spouses of sex addicts and i bet that would help you a lot. i haven't been yet, i start monday, but i talk to the leader of the group a couple of times a day and she is awesome !! you can talk face to face w/women in the same situation. let me know if you want to talk.
i feel the same way.
I'M SEEING A CERTIFIED SEX ADDICTION THERAPIST TO HELP ME DEAL W/MY HUSBAND'S SEX ADDICTION AND UNDERSTAND THE DISEASE. WE HAD A COUNSELOR, BUT SHE WAS NOT TRAINED IN SEX ADDICTION AND SHE MISSED ALL THE SIGNS. SHE REFERRED US TO A TEAM OF THERAPISTS AND THAT IS WHAT WE ARE DOING AT THIS POINT.
my husband has repeately cheated me with prostitutes. i am at a lowest point of my life.
found out my H's "fantasy life" a month ago. which is hookers.he always fantazied how it would be like to have sex with different women other than "just his wife". so he lived in a double life. He would stay hours online looking for porns. when he is on business trip. he would used the hidden cash to pay for prostitutes. i talk him into seeing a sex addiction therapist. i hope it will work for us.
my hubby is a recovered sex addict. our sex life has been difficult. we've tried counsuling, i worked for a while. than it's the same. i am very upset, but decided not to spare a drop of tear on this matter or on this man.