A decision has been made....
December 24, 2008 5:15am
Hi All
I hope some of my friends are still here but its been another manic year for me.
It has been 17 months since I found out that my …
Lea82
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About Me
Lea82
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About Me
I'm a bubbly, happy, shopaholic who found out in July 2007 that my partner after 3 years cheated by meeting one of my friends on a regular basis. They did not have sex but may as well have and this actully only happened once. I cam on DS when this all happened and many helped me through it. It's our 4 year anniversary soon and we have been able to fix things, thankfully. I still have a bad day so i'm here still. We have dealt with an affair, testicular cancer, death, financial problems and redundancy. We have had our fair share and things are looking so much better now.
I'm a bubbly, happy, shopaholic who found out in July 2007 that my partner after 3 years cheated by meeting one of my friends on a regular basis. They did not have sex but may as well have and this actully only happened once. I cam on DS when this all happened and many helped me through it. It's our 4 year anniversary soon and we have been able to fix things, thankfully. I still have a bad day so i'm here still. We have dealt with an affair, testicular cancer, death, financial problems and redundancy.
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Interests
Music, books, shopping, shopping, shopping and being in love. I love dancing and socialising in general. I'm usually a bubbly, fun go get em gal and I will eventually get back to this.
Music, books, shopping, shopping, shopping and being in love. I love dancing and socialising in general.
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Anger still there
May 19, 2008 9:23pm
Hi all friends
Gosh it's been such a long time since I was on here last. It breaks my heart to think of friends that have come and gone and …
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Journal Entry for November 4, 2007
November 4, 2007 5:57am
Hi all
Firstly an apology. I haven't been able to get on here as our PC went all funky on us so that was us without this for 1.5 months.
I'm …
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Journal Entry for September 13, 2007
September 13, 2007 4:29pm
Hey all,
I have been popping in to see friends etc., but see myself getting down and going back into our/my past. I do miss my friends on here so …
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Journal Entry for August 30, 2007
August 30, 2007 6:58am
SO..... last night we had another chat about the things I needed to address. So far so good. I know he absolutely hates us talking about it, but …
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Hey girl, hope things are going well for you and that you're having lots of fun. Take care.
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Hi sweetie. Thanks for befriending me. Hope everything is going well with you.
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Lea I believe in 2nd chances and think you have to try. Good on you... best wishes
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Hey girlie :-). Your pics are adorable. Your husband is a fool if he doesn't realize what he could be giving up. Keep your head up!
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Sorry to hear all that... be strong and write us.
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Close Infidelity
Ok well this Monday I found out that the man that says how much he loves me and is in love has had an affair. It wasn't a full blown one. He did this with one of my friends who was actually married. Been about 3-4 weeks started with lunch meets chatting then went to kissing and finally he did oral on her. I'm broken and i've just come back home from a break. We will be talking this Sunday about what to do. Just not even sure he wants me now and it's killing me.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Considering
- We've been in contact with relate and will see how we go if there is a we still.
- Crying Somewhat Helpful
- I seem to be crying myself into stupidness. It does help, but I just don't want to cry anymore. If i'm bored so must be my family and partner.
- Writing Working / Worked
- This really helps as an outlet for me. I'm quite creative, but getting all my thoughts and feellings onto the page helps alot.
Close Testicular Cancer
Type: SeminomaMy partner had a testes removed in Dec 2007 and has finally been given the all clear but with appointments every 3 months to check up on things. I's been traumatic and I need to share and get help.
