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mistyj 
I don't get it- He says it would be really helpful if I went to court with him- There is no legal reason for me to be there- He just thinks the judge will be more likely to grant the divorce if we are both there- Are you kidding me- I am supposed to plea his case to make his dreams come true and mine were destroyed- Fuck Him- I told him I am not going- he said I was being selfish- and that he was sorry his moving on hurt me but I should move on as well- He does not get the fact I pity this poor girl- he is a life sucker and whatever facade he has shown her this past few years will fade and the real Tom will come out. I am hurt he is out to make her dreams come true- and my dreams were shit to him. He still says " Misty- she makes me happy- you didn't- not like this- that is why i treat her better than I treated you- making it MY FAULT he treated me badly instead of just saying- you know Misty I am sorry I treated you badly, I should have treated you better, you deserved to be treated better- not you did not make me happy enough to treat you like you deserved to be treated. God I want this to be over- I hate having to deal with him- Everytime he contacts me he opens the wounds up again- How am I supposed to move on and not dwell in the past when he keeps dragging me back to it. This is really so unfair. Why do I have to come to work and get a lump in my throat because I see once again an e-mail from him.
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Why does he feel the judge will not grant the divorce. As long as all the paper work is done correctly and the division of assets is fair the judge could not care less. This crap about some one making him happy is just crap. No one can make him happy not you, and not her. He has to be happy in him self and till he figures that one out he will be a miserable S.O.B. The woman has done you a favor you should send her a thank you card when its all over: )
Wick
Misty - delete his e-mails, don't even read them. He doesn't deserve the time of day from you. He only cares about himself and thats why he still contacts you. Ignore his e-mails and never look back.
lovesuks
Misty,
Do not let him have this affect on you because he wins. These are some of the things my x said to me. After discovery I cried for about 1 hour and the pulled the dagger from my heart and said to my self he can never hurt me again. Thats when I decided to move on and be happy again. I sttod up to him and he did not like that. The day our divorce was final his lawyers told my lawyer he did not want this to happen but never would do anything about it so he got what he deserved. You are stronger than you know. Remember it is what it is and you only can take control and move on and not let him control you.
KayM