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  • About Me

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    TrevorJames

    Male, 34
    Three Rivers, MI, USA
    Member since July 8, 2007

    • About Me

      I am divorced. I am starting school again. I am saving money to pay for tuition and all my bills. I want to meet new people who are going through the same things I am or have the same interests. Ask for my yahoo id, if I can help at all.

      I am divorced. I am starting school again. I am saving money to pay for tuition and all my bills. I want to meet new people who are going through the same things I am or have the same interests. Ask for my yahoo id, if I can help at all.

    • Interests

      I am an outdoorsman... I like to hike, bike, walk, and fish. I am a good cook. I play a little guitar. I am into technology. I like football in the Fall and hockey in the Winter. I still want to learn how to skate. I want a personal trainer to get in-shape and will get one soon. I want to be in a COMMITED relationship, with someone I love. I want to feel loved and love in return. I want intellectual, emotional and physical intimacy. I need a friend.

      I am an outdoorsman... I like to hike, bike, walk, and fish. I am a good cook. I play a little guitar.

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    • I’m With You

      From mazar August 14

    • Superhero Status

      From itsmetheresa January 24

      Hey sweetie thanks for sharing your music with me!Keep the lyrics flowing!

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      From emjaykay January 11

      hope u r doing better I am from Colon mi now live in VA

    • Cheers

      From Noor December 31, 2008

      I hope you get many pies to your liking this coming year! :)

    • High Five

      From Oestonee December 19, 2008

      Great Grades, Hun. congrats... you worked hard and deserve it

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      It is looking like I am going to be alone for the rest of my days.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Forget it.
      Forgiveness Not Working
      I forgave her and she said I was the bigger person, but she could not forgive me for ruining her white-picket-fence dream with illnesses, lies and addiction.
      Leave Not Working
      We split-up, after we were evicted. She needed to leave. I needed her to stay, but who gives a fuck what I need?
      Love Not Working
      The love has gone away. Or, was it ever even there to begin with?
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      I am seeing a psychologist for PTSD, anxiety and depression. I am seeng a psychiatrist for Bi Polar Disorder. No more anger, rage or lies. My poor behaivors corrected, with the help of cognitive behavioral therapy. I still have tremors, nightmares and have to take a powerful sedative to sleep -- Seroquel. I want to use therapy as a way to get me off these drugs, eventually. I still do not sleep all the time.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      I am starting to meet new and interesting people again. Positive people. My friends and family have been supportive.
      Talking Working / Worked
      I talk too much. I talked myself right out of a marriage.
      Time Not Working
      I am a much better person than I was a year or so ago, but it doesn't seem to be enought to find someone.
    • Close Depression
      Type: Clinical (Major) Depression

      My depression is under control. However, I do get triggered sometimes.

      Treatments

      Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Working / Worked
      Studied this. It works. Just takes time. The PTSD and anxiety issues make the Bi Polar Disorder worse and vice-versa. Excess stress and anxiety can worsen the mania and depression. Not to mention, causing physical distress as well -- chronic pain.
      Geodon Not Working
      Tried it. Ended up in the hospital twice. Do not use, if you have an arrythmia or high-blood-pressure.
      Lexapro Not Working
      Made me more manic and allowed me less sleep.
      Paxil Not Working
      Made me feel shitty.
      Positive Thinking Working / Worked
      I fight the depression by overeating, excercising, learning, taking my meds and following through with the appointments to see my doctors. I will be able to get off these meds and lead an extraordinary life.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      I see an L.L.P. I will be able to get off all these drugs, except Tenormin, because that is for my blood pressue. I will need to stay in therapy, for a while longer. I still need help, but less and less.
      Seroquel Working / Worked
      Up to 300-900mg to fall asleep at night. I want to get off this stuff, if I can.
      Writing Working / Worked
      I write an online journal that people can respond to. I also write music and play guitar.
    • Open War & Terrorism

      I was robbed at gun point, and had my car stolen, while at work. After this, I had a mid-life-crisis that saw me lose everything I had, including my best friend and wife.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      I have been working with Pine Rest Christian Mental Health and all the people I have dealt with have been great.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      I have been working with Pine Rest Christian Mental Health and all the people I have dealt with have been great.
    • Open Chronic Pain

      I was born with a birth defect called Hip Dysplasia. I still have pain and have undergone 11 major surgeries. I also have two seperated shoulders. They are minor seperations, but they do cause pain. And, my back hurts, when I get stressed out.

      Treatments

      Marijuana Working / Worked
      I was addicted for years, but now I am clean. I do not take anything for pain. I just try to deal with it.
    • Open Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

      My most recent trauma was a robbery at work. I was also sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother and his friends. I had 11 major hip surgeries. Now I am divorced.

      Treatments

      Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Working / Worked
      Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      It has helped me, but I still have most of the major symptoms.
      Seroquel Somewhat Helpful
      It is losing its effectiveness.
      Talking Working / Worked
      I try to talk to anyone who will listen, but I do not have many friends.
    • Open Stress Management

      I have PTSD and BPD 1. I am living on workman's comp and Social-Security.

      Treatments

      Music Working / Worked
      I play guitar and write.
      Physical Exercise Not Working
      I was walking, but I need new shoes. I am poor, so I have not bought new shoes.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      I still need more help.
      Seroquel Working / Worked
      I need it to sleep.
    • Open Physical & Emotional Abuse

      I was sexually, mentally and physically abused by my brother.

      Treatments

      Abuse Counseling Working / Worked
      I am in psychotherapy. I still have flashbacks.
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      I think I have forgiven him, but I do not spend time with him.
      Leave Working / Worked
      I left the house for years and had to come back. Guess who is still there?! Thank god I am living on my own now.
      Music Considering
      I play guitar, write, and listen to music everyday.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Been in it for over a year. This helps me greatly.
      Talking Working / Worked
      I talk or chat.
    • Open Panic Attacks

      I have panic disorder from the PTSD.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      I have an appointment every week, in fact. I have had a good experience.
      Seroquel Somewhat Helpful
      Need it to sleep. Can not sleep without it.
      Valium Somewhat Helpful
      It helps even me out.
      Xanax Not Working
      Tried it, but valium is more effective.
    • Open Bipolar Disorder

      I was diagnosed with bipolar 1, a while ago. My doctor said that I was probably bipolar 3 most of my life and a recent trauma bumped it up a notch or two.

      Treatments

      Abilify Not Working
      Did not work.
      Geodon Not Working
      Sent me to the hospital twice.
      Lamictal Not Working
      This did not work for me.
      Lithium Not Working
      Does not work at all. All it does is make my tremors worse.
      Seroquel Working / Worked
      I need it to sleep. I have bumped up my dose from 150mg to 900mg, if needed. 150mg was not helping me sleep.
    • Open Marijuana Addiction & Recovery

      I abused pot on and off for about twenty years. I have finally had enough. It hurt my psyche and may have helped destroy my marriage.

      Treatments

      Cold Turkey Working / Worked
      I have decided to quit. I am trying to lower my risk factors so I can live a longer life.
    • Open TMJ

      I have TMJ also. I get migraines.

    • Open Migraine Headaches

      I get migraines from stress and TMJ.

      Treatments

      Sleep Working / Worked
      I try to sleep them off or get in a quiet dark room.
    • Open High Blood Pressure

      I have high blood pressure.

      Treatments

      Atenolol Working / Worked
      This seems to work.
      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Working / Worked
      I stoped smoking.
    • Open Sexual Abuse

      My brother sexually abused me when I was 11.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      It is helping me work through my feelings.
    • Open Anxiety

      I have PTSD and General Anxiety Disorder.

      Treatments

      Breathing Exercises Somewhat Helpful
    • Open Financial Challenges

      I am living on a workman's comp settlement and going to school. I do not have much money and my therapist has suggested I do not go back to work yet.

      Treatments

      Budgeting Working / Worked
      I know exactly what I spend every month.
    • Open Insomnia

      I can not sleep without my seroquel. In fact, sometimes I can not even sleep with it.

      Treatments

      Ambien Not Working
      Does not even come close to putting me to sleep.
    • Open Tinnitus

      My ears ring, because I have high blood pressure.

    • Open College Stress

      I am in school now. I am taking three classes.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      My therapist helps me.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      I take whatever I can get.
    • Open Healthy Relationships

      I was in a toxic relationship and a marriage that ended badly. I was pressured into marriage and I should of got out then, but I loved her and went through with it. Not to mention, I should of got out after she cheated on me. I miss all the good times, because there were alot.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      She would not go.
      Patience Not Working
      I waited over a year for her, but she did not even try.
      Talking Working / Worked
      I talked to anyone I could about my feelings.
      Writing Working / Worked
      I use a journal here on DS.
    • Open Abstinence & Celibacy

      I like to have sex with people I care about, so I don't get it much. I am not a bar, or random hook-up person.

    • Open Food Addiction

      I eat foods high in fat for instant gratification. I do this instead of cooking for myself in a healthy manner. A manner that I know would add years to my life.

      Treatments

      Eating Healthier Foods Working / Worked
      I am doing a very good job of this. Even when I go out, I choose healthy options. No more double whoppers, until I meet my goal weight -- 185.
    • Open Alcoholism

      I started drinking when I was 12. I abused alcohol from the ages of 12 to about 20. I am proud to say that I haven't touched the hooch in a while, but I know that addiction is a lifelong struggle.

      Treatments

      Cold Turkey Working / Worked
      I just woke up one day and decided to stop being a fall-down drunk.
      Willpower Working / Worked
      I just got sick of being drunk all the time. Unfortunately, I found another drug of choice -- marijuana.
    • Open Arrhythmias

      I am getting palpitations and they are happening everyday.

    • Open Diets & Weight Maintenance

      I am about 33 pounds overweight. I will get down to 180 pounds, which is my ideal weight.

      Treatments

      Eat Less Working / Worked
      I am losing.
    • Open Life After Divorce

      My divorce has been final since 1/11/08. I am trying to date again, but I have no takers. When I tried to date directly after the divorce, I was not ready to give my all. Now I am.

    • Open Loneliness

      I am a single male living alone for the first time in my life. It can be very difficult.

      Treatments

      Socializing Somewhat Helpful
      I am trying to meet women again. I think I am ready to give my all and trust again.
    • Open Incest Survivors

      I was abused by my brother.

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
      I still really dislike him the way he treated me and his choices in life.
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