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angelina1982
Female, 46, OH
"wish the pain from surgery go away"
5:14am Sunday
suregey it will be Mood
Friday, August 14, 2009 | An Anxious story

im am scared and nervous, my test results came back i have a hernia abover my hip and a size of a tennis ball, i have a gall bladder thing and they going to take that out. so i have to 2 suregey instead of one. b/c the hernia repair could get infection if  they do it togerther. if gall blaader got infection like he things then that could be more problems than that.

 

 so now i have the gall bladder done the 2 of sept. i went to my union head lady and shae said well you need to ask for a medcial un paid leave. i said isnt there only certain time frame and se said no. so i took in my letter and the suregey date and now they waiting for for me to get a medical stament showing how long to have off . so i go next week. the one lady she said she didnt ihink it be a problem  just need a letter from the dr to have the time off.

 

 i just got email and she said the superintent  said it should be ok as long as i gfot the dr telling how long to take off. that going hurt without pay but had least i have foodstamps and medical card. i lose my job insurance, but i dont have a choice.

 

 now for my boss she said have i told her yet. i said no i just got all this ready and she said i have tp let her know i said that fine, i prefer her not to know the problems.. and sahe said i just say your having suregey.. so i know she mad and maybe try to protest my leave b/c of me taken one before... she been trying to find a way to get ridf of me.

 

i hope she dont .... now the other thng the union told me i should try to aply for disabity and see if i qualify so that way if i qualify then i dont have to return and if i dont get it then i still have my job.

 

 so i scared to death b/c they going to try to lap firsdt and if there to much hesions then they have to open me up and then that more harder it heal.... and then they have open me up for the hernia... so plz keep me in prayer hugs ands miss eveyone

 

 

 i just been sick and not feeling well...

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  1. debbah

    Angelina check and see if you can get unemployment while you are off if you don't have any disability money coming in while you are off. There has to be something for people in that kind of situation. If not see if they can refer you somewhere else for help.


    debbah

  2. debbah

    Also, remember the scripture about not worrying about tomarrow. Each day has enough troubles of it's own. And don't dwell on the negative. Sounds like you are concentrating on everything that can go wrong instead of looking at this like they finally know what is causing some of your problems and now they are going to fix it. Think positive Honey. Satan will play on your negative feelings. Let God play on the positive ones. You are in my prayers and I'll put you on the prayer chain at church. "where two or more are gathered in His name, ask what you will and it will be granted".


    debbah

  3. jvega

    Exodus 15:26
    He said, “If you will listen carefully to the voice of the Lord your God and do what is right in his sight, obeying his commands and keeping all his decrees, then I will not make you suffer any of the diseases I sent on the Egyptians; for I am the Lord who heals you.”

    Mark 5:28
    For she thought to herself, “If I can just touch his robe, I will be healed.”

    The Lord provide you His Presence and Healing, God bless you!


    jvega

  4. angelina1982

    thanks for comment and i thought you had to be fired or lose it like lay off? the oboy thng and none told me was whewn i was pregangt you can get it.. huggs i che k it out.thanks


    angelina1982

  5. purplemoon

    sorry for what your going through! I hope everything works out and you get disability. sending positive thoughts your way and for your surgery! hugzzz


    purplemoon

  6. tipperspal

    I SO agree with debbah. I know things have been going wrong for you for SO long, Ang, that you do have a tendency to focus on the nrgative.Even your avatar reflects it Ang. The more negative you think, the more you attract until it is a habit to think this way. I don't want you to be mad at me, but I had to tell you this. Things will begin to go right, but you have to focus on things going right. Thoughts are very powerful and if you are not careful, you'll sabotage yourself.
    Good luck to you.
    Love, Judy


    tipperspal

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