He's finally gone!!! and not without a bang either.. past couple days he's been stirring up trouble via his parents.. them telling him we should have listed the house for more.. and its just crazy.. they want us to list the house for $50,000 more then its valued at!!! i told him not only is that just crazy in this market but no lender will finance anyone who's paying a price so high on a house that has such a lower value.. night before last he told me he was going to buy me out in a couple of months and would offer no explanation on how he plans to do this.. then i find out he wanted to write me a check for $30k and have me turn my head and walk away WITH my name still on the mortgage while he and his parents try to sell it for more! so yesterday he goes to see the realtor and get him to change it without my permission... comes back here with a paper for me to sign saying i agree to this.. i told him.. you refinance that house in your name get my name off and give me a check for $30k and we got a deal.. in the meantime the listing price stays and if we get a decent offer we accept it! he was not happy with me yesterday.. too Fn bad! i said i'm not sitting on a house for years making payments when i know it won't sell for that... dork! Man i'm so glad he's out of my life!!! I will not miss one single thing about him!!! nothing! i don't even like the man anymore..






You go girl!! Stick to your guns. What kinda man needs mommy and daddy to tell him what to do anyway!! Geesh...well good thing is that you are closer than ever to being totally free of him. All there is now is the paper work. That's what I'm working on here. In TN it takes 90 days once the papers are filed. Can't wait for my complete freedom. YAY!!
MusicMyLove
I am glad you told him what he could do with his offer. I see you've grown that set of cajones we were looking for!! lol Feels good doesn't it? I am so proud of you g/f!! Kudos!!
coffeelady
Whooooo Hooooo....good for you Sassafrastea!! You rock ...... you are NOT about to let the stbx and his parents walk all over you!!! Gooooooo girlfriend. I had a similar experience 6 yrs ago during my divorce....his parents hired the most expensive atty in town....an ex-judge....to fight me for full custody. I was flat broke and an atty for myself....and beat them in court. Keep on standing up for your rights...... you deserve the best, IMHO. Cindi
EagleMom