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LanaG
Female, 57, Mound, MN
"sometimes all anyone can do is sit in the dark tunnel with me, hold my hand, and reassure me that there is light yet to come."
12:06am, July 27, 2009

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  • I'm With You

    joeymom (07/07/09)

    Lana, Haven't forget to talk to my son. He is away now.
    Wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. Holding your hand this difficult month. Extra Tight Hugs.


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    RockstarsMom (07/07/09)

    Lana You will be close. I sure hope you are having moments of fun. Your wine and kayacing sounded fun. I'm doing all I'm told and hoping it's all working. I feel okay other than tired. I'll be fine. Thanks for caring. I sure hope you get the law changed. Love and hugs Cathy


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    RockstarsMom (07/06/09)

    Lana I agree you must do what you must do. If it makes you feel the littlest bit better it's worth it. I agree one year is not enough in the death of a child, in that first year, you are lucky if you remember to breath let alone do anything else. If you can help one parent not to have to suffer you have done a wonderful thing. Maybe just maybe if you faced the young man he might realize exactly the pain is minute of fun caused. You take care of yourself and do what you need to. Love and hugs Cathy


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    JudyWI (07/02/09)

    Thank you, Hon, for the journal comments! Oh, the emotions are just all over the place now! There are so many memories of the last 15 yrs here, but you are right, I KNOW how much my Jamie loved me,...he is horrified by what happened here and how it affected me. He was such a gentle man and my happiness would mean a lot to him. Before he died, I could see how my declining health was bothering him. He just hated watching me go up the steps and tried to help me. Of course, I told him it was not as bad as it looked, but I had to do it myself, but he KNEW the pain it caused me. I know this will be a huge adjustment, but I also know that Jamie IS smiling and IS happy for me! Love you! Judy


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    JudyWI (07/01/09)

    I think you ARE healing, Lana, little by little. I have seen some of your more positive posts. One thing I feel, for sure, is that the hole in our heart will never heal,...we go on for the world's sake, not for our own. We tend to wear a mask so the world won't pity us, but the hole in my heart and (gut) is always there. I actually get physical pain in both places when I think about Jamie, ...I'm sure it is the same for you! Hugging you tight! Love, Judy


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    ConH (06/30/09)

    Hugging you tight tonight. Praying for your strength to find the answer you are looking for...Connie


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    duane (06/30/09)

    So sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for your support.


  • I'm With You

    JudyWI (06/30/09)

    I, too, feel that your angel would have wanted the move for you, to help you try to make a new life. She was a very loving girl, you can see it in her eyes,...my son was the same, very soft inside and I know he would want me to heal and try to be happy again. Love you, Judy


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    JudyWI (06/30/09)

    Thanks for the lovely journal comments, Hon! We are still on "pins & Needles"--haven't heard a thing on our counter offer. As it is, it would bring us down to 24K under our assessment. Things here are really bad right now, loss of jobs, last week there were 2 full pages in the paper of foreclosures with industries leaving, etc. I just pray that God will help us to get out of here, I know it would be so much better for me! Love to you, Judy


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    misshimsooo (06/30/09)

    thinking of you in thought and prayer. please take care of yourself and i hope you find the answers you are looking for. you deserve to know.

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