Hi my name is Tish and I am a 36 …
Hi my name is Tish and I am a 36 year old married to my high school sweetheart and have two beautiful little girls. I …
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bobo 
1:09pm, September 21, 2009
Well it's been a rough weekend, just about the
worst one that ever had. We found out that our daughter's boyfriend is doing some really bad things. Amber is beside herself and I have been in a horrible flare and all this stress
is making it worse. I just don't know what
to do. My children is my world and I would die for them but sometimes you have to start growing up and
realize that you need to start making better decisions.
I have worried till I'm sick and in horrible pain. I have talked till I'm tired and I don't know what else to do.
I just don't know how to handle this situation. When I went to church this morning and we had special prayer for her.
So now I have to let God take care of her
cause I can't doing it alone. I love her but I just don't have the answers. Hanging around the wrong crowd will get
you into a lot of trouble. It's been such a rough weekend and I'll be glad when it is over.
If anyone reads this please pray for my daughter
her father and for me. I'm so worn down from worrying so much
and not sleeping at night. I have had one nervous breakdown
and I sure don't want to have another and by the grace of God I won't. I just feel so helpless and I don't know what to do.
You can either push them away from you or
get closer to them to where they will listen.
I have always heard that
Love is blind.
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bundymum
becky, i'll pray for all of you, amber will have to probably figure this out on her own, it's in god's hands now. it will all work out.
Shearts23
My thoughts and prayer are with you and your family. Your daughter is going to have to figure it out herself. A special prayer for her.
hugs Nancy
barlochan
Sending Hugs and Prayers for your whole family. May God guide all of you and give you the peace you need.
Hugs
Maryca
You are all in my prayers.
huangreatdog
Becky,
I will be praying for Amber, your husband and you. I am here for you if you need me. I pray that your pain will ease as well.
Love, hugs and prayers
AzGal45
Becky, you are always in my prayers!! I know how much you love your daughter and worry about her. I also know how hard it is to give her and her situation over to God. All I can so is pray and that, my friend, I will do.
Mary Lou
mert254
Hi Becky! I've gone through this type of thing with my kids as well. My hubby was either gone or sick, so I was on my own too! But, just as everyone and you too have said, you just have to let Amber learn the hard way sometimes. God lets us go through these low points and trials in life so we can learn and be greatful for the good times. I don't know if you've ever listened to a DR James Dobson...He is a Christian & runs the site called Focus on the Family as well as is the author of several books on "Tough Love"! Sometimes you can write to him or call the program and he'll help you for free! I'll be keeping you in my prayers and you are always in my thoughts honey! Love and God Bless You all! It will all work out_SOMEHOW! Love and hugs~Kim xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
pomgirl
I read your entry and it so reminds me of my life..my daughters have not made the best choice of men and they have nobody else to talk to so they call me and I talk like you until I cant talk anymore..I have physically went over and moved them out of their houses but just went back..I never really feel the greatest anymore and I know that stress has alot to do with it I just wanted to tell you I know how you feel and God Bless You...
NeenaM