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  • About Me

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    bayoulady

    Female, 54, Married
    Minden, LA, USA
    Member since June 11, 2007

    • About Me

      I am 54 years old, Christian, wife, mom, stepmom, grandmother, counselor, and at 55 pounds over goal. My weight is kind of in the middle at 204. 5--up from a few months ago, but down from a few weeks ago. . .My job is ok but stressful. with some hormone challenges, unresolved grief, bouts of depression , fibromyalgia, binge eating, ADHD, and irritable bowel, I manage to function pretty well. I am a fighter, a survivor.

      I am 54 years old, Christian, wife, mom, stepmom, grandmother, counselor, and at 55 pounds over goal. My weight is kind of in the middle at 204. 5--up from a few months ago, but down from a few weeks ago. . .My job is ok but stressful. with some hormone challenges, unresolved grief, bouts of depression , fibromyalgia, binge eating, ADHD, and irritable bowel, I manage to function pretty well. I am a fighter, a survivor.

    • Interests

      Nature, writing, reading, walks, hiking(when I get in better shape) and canoeing. I also used to like painting, and I might try my hand at it again. I also like gardening, especially flowers and now some fruit trees, and such.

      Nature, writing, reading, walks, hiking(when I get in better shape) and canoeing. I also used to like

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  • Journal

    • Another day

      Mood June 17, 2009 8:15am

      Well, this is harder than I figured. My dog went everywhere in my house with me, and out in the yard with me to work on my flowers(she couldn't …

    • A sad goodbye

      Mood June 15, 2009 10:29am

      Well friends,  I just said goodbye to my dog who we raised from a pup for the past 17 years. She was a good dog, and had some good years, but it …
    • Slow starting Saturday/ precious sleep

      Mood June 6, 2009 10:50am

      This has not been a restful week--until last night--I think I went to bed at 930 and slept till 830 this morning after several days of 4-5 hours …
    • Thursday progress

      Mood June 4, 2009 8:35am

      Well I binged on Monday andTuesday--saw a new therapist(in the office with my other therapist today). I think I got passed off for my own good. This …
    • Rough Monday

      Mood June 1, 2009 10:14pm

      Couple of better days, and then the mother of all binges today. Worst I 've done in awhile. Ended up very miserable. After a good weekend, and a …

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  • Goals

    Progress

    39 %

    Current Weight (Lbs)
    200
  • Support Groups

    • Close Eating Disorders

      I have had an eating disorder since I was a child, I think. That's when I started using food. I was anorexic as a teenager for awhile. And my first episode of compulsive overeating big time was in my 20's. I slimmed down and was fairly normal in my 30's but by 40, I was playing the game again. Numb out, we'll call it. Eat till you don't feel.

      Treatments

      Prozac Working / Worked
      It is helping.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Working--not fun--but working.
    • Close Obesity

      I am 54, and 55 pounds overweight. My weight has been up and down over the years, but I am stuck at the current weight.. There's been a lot of changes in my life and a lot of stress. I am trying to "eat normal", have joined weight watchers for some accountability, am seeing a doctor and about to start therapy. I am a compulsive overeater, and I was a little surprised that there was no place for binge eating or compulsive overeating on the eating disorders page.

      Treatments

      Physical Exercise Somewhat Helpful
      I go to curves twp to three times a week, and try to walk extra when I can. I am gardening 3 x's a week--about 5-7 hours total a week, and that helps.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Its not easy, but it is helping. I am having to challenge my longheld habits, and vices.
    • Open Depression
      Type: Clinical (Major) Depression

      I have had problems with depression--a lot as a teenager, terrible in my 20's, but now I have to say its part of my struggle to lose weight. I don't get depressed if I am working, but dont handle down time well. And sometimes I isolate a lot. My self image, with a weight problem, is kind of in the toilet. I know I need some work.

      Treatments

      Prozac Working / Worked
      Has worked,not on medication right now
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Starting again
      Wellbutrin Somewhat Helpful
      Too soon to tell--this is in combination with Prozac and a temporary dose of Lunesta to help me sleep.
    • Open Food Addiction

      I am a binge eater--a compulsive overeater, and a food addict-- I have had periods of normal weight lasting several years in my life, when things were going good. I obsess on food when I have to plan, or concern myself with feeding others. I am a Christian, counselor, a wife, a mother, grandmother. Food has ruled my life. I used food, much like the alcoholic. I am in recovery--have done 12 step programs, am in therapy, and take Prozac. My weight is 68 pounds above goal.

      Treatments

      Overeaters Anonymous (OA) Not Working
      I did get some benefit from a Christian 12 step, but OA was not successful. I never fit in.
      Prozac Working / Worked
      It helps with the compulsive part
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      It helps with the anxiety
      Prayer Working / Worked
      It is a support for me, and a guide.
      Writing Working / Worked
      Helps me learn to express feelings I would otherwise stuff.
    • Open Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS)

      I sm 52 years old, and have had irritable bowel problems for 13 years at least--I noticed the difficulty first after gallbladder surgery. I have the combination type--where I get diarrhea and constipation, but my most miserable problem is bloating. I dare not skip a meal, or eat fried foods. I am also laotose intolerant--and I think I get flareups when I don't realize I am getting milk products, or don't think its enough to hurt me. I watch what I eat--and have learned many of the triggers.

      Treatments

      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Working / Worked
      I cant use MSG, and if I eat dairy, I have to have dairy ease. I use lactaid milk for cereal, and I can eat yogurt.
      High Fiber Diet Working / Worked
      This seems to help, as long as I drink plenty of water.
      Levsin Working / Worked
      I have to take Levbid during prolonged flareups, I take Hyoscyamine as needed. It helps.
      Librax Working / Worked
      I have used this in the past, but I think levsin is better for me.
      Miralax Working / Worked
      I have used this occasionally, when the constipation factor flares. It is less painful than otehr laxatives--no cramping.
      Probiotics Working / Worked
      I try to take these products at least several times a week. It has helped a little.
    • Open Diabetes Type 2

      Bayou here, 52 year old Louisiana lady, wife, mom, stepmom, grandmother, counselor. I am about 70 pounds overweight, have always been hypoglycemic--recently diagnosed as pre-diabetic--but my sugars have gone up--I am taking glucophage and trying to regulate my eating.

      Treatments

      Metformin Working / Worked
      Helping some, not adjusted fully. 500 mg twice daily
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      When energy holds out, I walk 1 mile everyday, and try to keep moving thru the day, in my sedentary job
    • Open Seasonal Affective Disorder

      Just realized my pattern. I make it through Christmas fine, and then the dive. My weight and depression increase, my anxiety increases, my self esteem, my energy and my zest for life goes to zero. My doctor pointed out the pattern. I have known I have problems with depression forever, but never saw this pattern. I am improving some now, but would love to hear what helps. I am trying to get out in the sun as much as possible, now that its warmer. I have considered light therapy.

      Treatments

      Vitamin D Too Soon to Tell
      Doctor put me on weekly then every other week prescription. Well see.
    • Open ADHD / ADD

      I may be the oldest just diagnosed ADHD person. I am 54, and was just tested. I had asked for it before, but the social worker at that time said, not with my grades. My difficulties are with organization, losing things and not finishing things, visual memory, and with details. I interrupt people, and get bored very easy. The psychologist this time said I had severe problems with ADD. I cried afterwards. I have been made to feel stupid and like a misfit so many times. Bayou

      Treatments

      Research Somewhat Helpful
      I read everything I can find. I have used some of the organizational suggestions.
      Strattera Not Working
      Didn't help
      Vyvanse Working / Worked
      New medicine. Seems to be helping me focus. Will be increasing it if it does not raise my blood pressure too much.
      Wellbutrin Not Working
      I tried that before for depression. It made me more depressed.
    • Open Bereavement
      Type: Loss of a Child

      I am 54, Christian, a wife, a counselor, a mom, a grandmom,and a friend. But I have some unresolved grief I didn't realize was so still there. I lost my stepson in 2005(he was 21--I'd been his stepmom 14 years, and he lived with us. Then last year, my daughter in law had a miscarriage-- I went into depression. I am menopausal-I only had one child--so I think I had several losses-- last year, I left a job that I had tried hard to make work. I am here to see if I can put the grief to rest.

      Treatments

      Crying Working / Worked
      Still have to cry sometimes.
      Grief Counseling Working / Worked
      still seeing a counselor
      Helping Others Working / Worked
      I am a counselor, I also volunteer, and go above and beyond
      Keeping Busy Working / Worked
      I always stay busy
      Pets Working / Worked
      A dog and a bird. They are great company
      Poetry Working / Worked
      I write poems--it helps me process
      Prayer Working / Worked
      prayer is my lifeline. I was angry with God for awhile, but I tried to talk to Him about it.
      Reading Working / Worked
      I always read to help others and help myself
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