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Crossroads 
Please, I need sound advice. I am three months pregnant and my marriage is crumbling. I discovered a couple of days before Christmas that my husband is viewing pornography and gambling. I knew he had a gambling problem before we married, and thought he had stopped. Right before I got pregnant, I learned he was viewing porn by calling a number on his bank statement. It was devastating to learn that your spouse is subscribing to an adult dating website. He claims to be a voyeur and wasn't contacting anyone. our phone and email records seem to confirm this. I also learned he's gambled away about $12k this year. He is a financial mess. We got counseling, but he did not follow through with a support group or individual sessions.
Just when I though it couldn't get worse, the porn he was viewing was from a disgusting website called realincest.com. He claims he viewed it just as porn. I have thrown him out of the house, it was right before Christmas. He kept trying to come home, and I listenend to hours of his remorse and how he plans to get help.
Today I looked at his bank statement and learned he gambled $400 this weekend. I called a divorce attorney and learned there is no legal separation in my state.
This is going to be my first child and I am 41. I have always been very responsible and career driven, now my life feels like a Jerry Springer show.
What should I do? I am at a crossroad.
